Don't hold on to things that make life difficult for you; live with a heart that forgives. Yes, your heart will forgive, but what does your soul want you to remember out of the experience?
The six things that your soul wants you to remember:
Everything Is Temporary
Everything in life is temporary if you are in the wrong place; just remember that it is only temporary. It will turn for the better at some point.
It is, however, also correct that if you are in the right place that it could just be temporary as well. Do not let the fact that it is temporary discourage you. The universe is continually changing, and you can adapt to change with it.
You Have Everything That You Need
You have everything that you need in you already — the necessary skills, education, and all the motivation that you need to be successful.
Start to believe in yourself, start to work towards your goal today. Don't use the excuse that you don't have the necessary tools to achieve success, go out, and make a success of yourself.
Change, Or Don't Change Its Your Choice
Change yourself, or don't change yourself; it is up to you. You are good enough and smart enough currently. Don't let someone tell you that you need to change. You should decide who you want to be and if you need to change to be that person.
Live For The Moment
Live in this moment; forget about the past. You can not change the past. Forget about the future. It is something that you do not have now.
Live for today, this moment, this second, and make the most of everything that you are doing today.
Accept Your Situation
You can not control your fate. Accept your fate. Accept the situation that you are in. Do not try to control everything as soon as you start to accept that; you do not have control over everything you will be better off.
You Are Not Alone
Surround yourself with friends and family. Make sure that you know that you are not alone. You have friends and family that love you and will support you.
Don't overlook the fact that you have a support network built around you. Make use of your network in times of need. Do not strand yourself emotionally on a desert island where no one can reach you.
There are so many difficult situations that you need to deal with daily, don't hold them in. Let your heart forgive, but let your soul remember the lessons that you learn from every situation.