Many reasons and scenarios may make women remain single. Perhaps they never want to experiment with the stresses of a relationship, or they could have got into a relationship that ended abruptly causing heartbreak. The pain and loss made them not want to get into a relationship. They might prefer a single life because of all the benefits it can bring.
The truth is this; women who remain single for long periods of time end up happiest. Here is why:
They are happiest because they found themselves. There is no worse thing to a girl than to be forced to live a masked life to please someone else. Singlehood provides a chance for these women to be themselves. The inner self of every woman longs to be expressed. This is usually difficult especially when a woman is with someone. When alone women can express that inner self. They can rejuvenate it and feed it with the world’s goodness.
Women who remain single for quite a long time are happiest because they can afford to be flexible. They don’t have a boyfriend to please. They are not required to rush home after work to see their boyfriend. They are just flexible. Over the weekends, they can choose what their heart desires. If they feel that they want to lay in bed all day and read a novel, they can! They are not under pressure to meet another person’s expectations. They go shopping whenever they feel like and choose to attend events based on their tastes and preferences only.
Women who lead single lives for an extended period of time end up the happiest because they can afford to be a little selfish. Self-love is uplifting. It is therapeutic and stress-free. Women who are single have better opportunities for enjoying their lives. They have no one to please except themselves. Thus love and harmony follows them wherever they are, and in whatever they do. They live and relive every moment of their lives with no distraction, no complaint, and with no relationship conflict.
They end up being the happiest since they can provide for themselves. They are the breadwinners. They learn how to win the battles of life by themselves. They need no boyfriend to complement them. This is because they have learned to work on their weaknesses and capitalize on their strengths. They don’t beg to be taken shopping. They have the money to go for any crazy shopping spree. They are always guaranteed a good life and don’t need to please someone else to get things going.
Instead of chasing after boyfriends, women who remain single for an extended period of time have time to pursue their own goals and ambitions. They are achievers, trendsetters, and have no time for unfulfilling relationships. These women are always in the limelight due to their achievements and tremendous career progress. They influence the world and are not influenced by it. Their go-getter attitude cannot allow them to settle for less.
In case a girl like this finds an ideal man to fall in love with, they don’t do it out of desperation. They love and accept to be loved because such a man challenges them to better themselves. They do not leave their true self for the sake of love but only accept boyfriends who will accept that they are independent, capable, and have goals to pursue.