Romance

Why You Should Be Actively Looking To Date An "Ugly" Guy

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It's common to be attracted to an attractive person in the vicinity, but it's unlikely that they can provide lasting happiness. In contrast, pursuing a relationship with someone who may not be conventionally attractive but possesses other desirable qualities is more likely to lead to a fulfilling and enduring partnership. Let's explore why:

1. Women who date to ugly guys are statistically more happy

A recent scientific study suggests that women who date men perceived as unattractive or below average in looks tend to have greater life satisfaction compared to those who choose to be in a relationship with conventionally attractive men. While it is important to acknowledge the rigor of the study, it is crucial to note that scientific findings are subject to limitations and should be interpreted with caution.

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2. Guys who date girls who are hotter than them are happier too

Men who date partners who are considered more attractive than themselves tend to report higher levels of satisfaction and happiness in their lives, as opposed to those who date partners perceived as less attractive. This may be because men do not experience feelings of inferiority when they are the less attractive partner in a relationship, unlike situations involving financial or career disparities. This finding is intriguing.

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3. You'll get the love and attention you deserve

Modern women are under immense pressure to excel in various aspects of their lives, from being an ideal spouse to a successful professional and a supportive friend. On top of all this, they are expected to maintain a flawless appearance. Such expectations can be overwhelming. Therefore, it's reasonable to desire a partner who reveres and admires them.

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4. He'll always be afraid of losing you and will therefore put in more effort

As an unattractive man, he'll likely feel fortunate that you've shown interest in him. He'll be extra careful not to jeopardize the relationship and may make more efforts to show his affection. This can lead to a more affectionate and comfortable relationship for you.

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5. He'll be able to keep up with you intellectually

As unattractive men were not typically popular in high school, they often developed a witty sense of humor and became interested in intellectual pursuits to gain attention from their peers, especially girls. Consequently, they tend to have a well-rounded and appealing personality. Ugly guys can engage in deep conversations and genuinely listen to what you have to say, without constantly bringing the focus back to their physical appearance or fitness routines. What more could a girl ask for?

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6. Everyone knows that ugly guys are better in bed

Due to not being popular in life, unattractive men had to develop ways to assert themselves and surpass the stereotypically attractive but aggressive bullies. They may have spent a considerable amount of time researching sexual techniques and methods to provide maximum pleasure to their partners. As a result, they possess the knowledge and dedication required to satisfy their partners' needs in bed.

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7. You don't have to worry about some girl stealing him from you

Due to not being popular in life, unattractive men had to develop ways to assert themselves and surpass the stereotypically attractive but aggressive bullies. They may have spent a considerable amount of time researching sexual techniques and methods to provide maximum pleasure to their partners. As a result, they possess the knowledge and dedication required to satisfy their partners' needs in bed.

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8. You don't have to worry when you eventually decided to let yourself go

You'll likely observe that, unlike the conventionally attractive men you've dated before, he doesn't garner much female attention due to his unremarkable looks. This can be a relief to you, as you don't have to worry about other women using him for his physical appearance. He's all yours for as long as you choose to be with him.

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9. Guys who don't care what they look like are often more masculine

It's possible that an unattractive man may not put much effort into going to the gym, getting a stylish haircut, or shaving regularly. However, such a lack of concern for conventional physical attractiveness may indicate a greater sense of security and confidence in his masculinity, which can be very appealing.

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10. It'll do wonders for your self-esteem

Dating an unattractive guy can boost your self-confidence as you'll feel much more attractive in comparison. You may notice people staring at you in amazement as they wonder how a beautiful woman like yourself could be with a plain-looking guy. This notion seems to be supported by research.

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