I know exactly how you feel. It is written all over your face. Your eyes tell it all.
You feel like you are chasing a fantasy. You are worn out, and the dream of getting the right person into your life seems like an illusion.
You know first-hand how disappointing this search can get, and you have had to endure a few heartaches along the way.
So, as you can see, I know how you feel because I have been there.
Just one thing – allow me to assure you that this is not the end of the road. The search for the right one does not end in disappointment and heartache.
So, don't give up just yet. You might be closer than you think.
You need to know one thing – when you least expect it, the person you have been dreaming about all along will walk into your life.
That person will belong in your life, and he will be yours forever. You might not realize it at first, but once you know he/she is the person for you, there will be no shred of doubt in your mind about it.
Your eyes will lock, and the touch will confirm it. And there will be a fluttering feeling in your stomach and your heart will race because you have finally found the one.
At that moment, all the pain, the disappointments, and the frustrations of the past will simply fade away, and your heart will open up and receive its due reward for its patience and boldness.
Strange as this may sound – the pain of the past will make sense. You will feel that it was all worth it because you will feel love so deeply, and you will know because you understand what it is like to give love and get nothing but pain and heartache in return.
But unlike every other relationship you have had, it will feel loving and trusting. You will know that you were meant to be together and that nothing can get in your way.
There will be no doubt in your mind that this is what you wanted all along and you were simply looking for it with the wrong people in the past.
And so, if you are not here yet, know that you have not met the person of your dreams yet.
Here is some important advice - don't settle.
True love should be genuine, and it should be a two-way street. It is the greatest feeling you can hope for, and you should not talk yourself out of it by settling for anything less.
Also, let go of the illusion that love holds you back. So, freely offer your love, but to those who are worthy of it. Giving love is beautiful, and so is receiving it. And it's rare finding someone so worthy of your love that you offer it in every possible way.
This also means you should never be with someone you feel inclined to deny any part of your love.
The right person is out there for you if you haven't already found him.
And remember this – when he comes along, because I know he will, every part of your being will know he is the one - the love of your life.