A woman will stick around through the roughest of storms, and it’s sometimes all too easy to mistake this extraordinary for lack of strength or courage to leave. Don’t be fooled, even the most patient of women will get tired at some point, and you had best believe her when she says enough is enough because once she makes up her mind to leave, there’s simply no turning back.
Men can be very impulsive and will be the first ones out of the door at the very first sign of trouble. But they will also realize just how much of a mistake walking away is, and find their way back. Going away when things are not looking so great and coming back once the storm is passed becomes somewhat of a cycle. Not so much with women, though.
A woman will always muster the strength to brave through all the ups and downs of your relationship. She will patiently stay by your side when things are at their worst and will selflessly forgive you when you screw up over and over again. She will choose to see the best in you and keep hoping that you will grow into the best version of yourself.
But when reality dawns and she realizes there’s absolutely no hope of you changing and she is just wasting her time, she will walk away. Rest assured that it will be a point of no return for her and nothing you say or do will make her change her mind. It will be too little too late and you will have no one but yourself to blame.
Women are very forgiving and that is why they will give second, and third, and fourth chances and more to the men they love. Before you run out of chances, show her that you are willing and ready to change. Work on yourself and the things that seem to upset her. Go out of your way to treat her as well as she deserves and even better. Do and say everything that you need to say to make it up to her. She deserves better.
Letting go is never easy for any woman. But give her enough reasons and she will. And once she does, she will only be looking to the future, a future in which there is absolutely no space for you. Yes, you will just become another person that she used to know.
It will most definitely be quite difficult at the beginning, considering how invested she was in your relationship. But time has a way of healing even the deepest of wounds and that is why it will only be a matter of time before she is finally over you.
She will re-direct all her focus and energy towards a fresh start for herself. She will re-build, and because she now realizes her true worth, giving your relationship another try will not be an option. You will have lost her for good. Don’t hold your breath. She will not be changing her mind.