Let’s get real for a moment. Let no one convince you that there is anything like the ‘right moment’ for commitment. It’s all about the right person. The day you meet the right man for you, he won’t waste time waiting to be ‘ready’ to commit.
When a man loves
you, he wants you by his side for eternity, and he will gladly commit
to you with no issues.
If a man loves you
and wants to be with you, why would he not commit to you? Short answer — none.
You are probably
saying: it’s never that simple, but it is!
The right man for
you will stop at nothing to ensure that you are a permanent part of
his life, and he will let nothing get between you and him. He will go to
the ends of the world, face his greatest fears, and survive anything
just to call you his own.
As a matter of fact,
he will love nothing more than to commit to you and have you by his
This probably sounds
too good to be true, based on what your past relationships have
taught you. But sometimes, truth is very simple, and there it is.
After going through
manipulation, lies, mistreatment and a bunch of issues that
come with being in the wrong relationship, you might find being with
a man who is not willing to commit to be just a minor relationship issue.
It’s common for men not to commit, yes. But that does not make it right.
Know one thing – a
man who does not commit to you or entertain the idea simply doesn’t
love you. That’s the tough reality.
So, waiting for the
man in your life to change is a terrible idea, because that will never
And even you know
this in your heart. So, you are just prolonging the inevitable. The truth will hit you hard one day when you finally accept
that it was never meant to be.
Don’t get me
wrong, I understand your pain. And I know where you are coming from.
But don’t let the fear nasty experiences from the past have planted
in you ruin your one hope for a truly fulfilling relationship.
I know that you believe in being in a relationship with a man who loves you and will take the greatest delight in him committing to you.
Yes, you have made a
few mistakes in the past, and you have been through hell and back.
And I am here to
tell you you deserved none of the mistreatment you had to
go through while hoping that the relationship would pan out.
However hard you try to hide this truth, your eyes can still tell your painful story.
Here are some
beautiful facts to remember.
love exists, and it is waiting for you out there if you don’t
already have it with you. The person who will prove this to you will
walk into your life one day, and he will want nothing more than to
spend his entire life with you.
You will not have to
wonder whether or not he loves you because his eyes will tell it all.
Even his touch will show that he treasures you deeply.
At this moment, you
will realize what you were missing by being patient with men who were
not worth a minute of your time.
It will no longer be
a struggle looking for the signs he loves you because they will
be all over the place. You will not feel that they need to prove to
you how much they love you.
The right man will
want to spend his life with you.
This means that if you have the wrong man in your life, it is the high time you made some changes.
Stop wasting your love and energy on the wrong people.
If he has not made
up his mind to commit to you, he never will.
Don’t waste time
trying to defend his bad behavior.
You have to let go
of these toxic people and give love a chance.
True love exists,
and it’s simple and beautiful. You either have it or you don’t.