Let's get real for a moment. Let no one convince you that there is anything like the 'right moment' for commitment. It's all about the right person. The day you meet the right man for you, he won't waste time waiting to be 'ready' to commit.
When a man loves you, he wants you by his side for eternity, and he will gladly commit to you with no issues.
If a man loves you and wants to be with you, why would he not commit to you? Short answer — none.
You are probably saying: it's never that simple, but it is!
The right man for you will stop at nothing to ensure that you are a permanent part of his life, and he will let nothing get between you and him. He will go to the end of the world, face his greatest fears, and survive anything just to call you his own.
As a matter of fact, he will love nothing more than to commit to you and have you by his side.
This probably sounds too good to be true, based on what your past relationships have taught you. But sometimes, truth is very simple, and there it is.
After going through manipulation, lies, mistreatment, and a bunch of issues that come with being in the wrong relationship, you might find being with a man who is not willing to commit to be just a minor relationship issue.
It's common for men not to commit, yes. But that does not make it right.
Know one thing – a man who does not commit to you or entertain the idea simply doesn't love you. That's the tough reality.
So, waiting for the man in your life to change is a terrible idea, because that will never happen.
And even you know this in your heart. So, you are just prolonging the inevitable. The truth will hit you hard one day when you finally accept that it was never meant to be.
Don't get me wrong, I understand your pain. And I know where you are coming from. But don't let the fear that nasty experiences from the past have planted in you ruin your one hope for a truly fulfilling relationship.
I know that you believe in being in a relationship with a man who loves you and will take the greatest delight in him committing to you.
Yes, you have made a few mistakes in the past, and you have been through hell and back.
And I am here to tell you that you deserved none of the mistreatment you had to go through while hoping that the relationship would pan out.
However hard you try to hide this truth, your eyes can still tell your painful story.
Here are some beautiful facts to remember.
First, true love exists, and it is waiting for you out there if you don't already have it with you. The person who will prove this to you will walk into your life one day, and he will want nothing more than to spend his entire life with you.
You will not have to wonder whether or not he loves you because his eyes will tell it all. Even his touch will show that he treasures you deeply.
At this moment, you will realize what you were missing by being patient with men who were not worth a minute of your time.
It will no longer be a struggle looking for the signs he loves you because they will be all over the place. You will not feel that they need to prove to you how much they love you.
The right man will want to spend his life with you.
This means that if you have the wrong man in your life, it is high time you made some changes.
Stop wasting your love and energy on the wrong people.
If he has not made up his mind to commit to you, he never will.
Don't waste time trying to defend his bad behavior.
You have to let go of these toxic people and give love a chance.
True love exists, and it's simple and beautiful. You either have it or you don't.