This is the truth, although most people will not accept it. Once a man loves you, he will need no other reason before committing to you.
Yes, he’ll do it immediately and without hesitation. And that is the surest sign that he is “the one.”
A person who wants you will have nothing else to wait for. But a man who is not serious about you or does not love you will dance around that fact. Trying to keep you around because it feels convenient.
Such a guy will keep coming up with reasons he cannot commit. And you will have a hard time understanding his true intentions.
Dating experts have a timeline on when someone should be able to tell you whether you are meant to be. If within 90 days of meeting, the man is not sure you can be together forever, then it’s time to call off the relationship and find better romantic prospects.
And no, you don’t have to tie the knot within three months, but there should be some certainty that the relationship is meant to last the distance.
If not, then you are wasting your time.
This is where many people go wrong. They think by waiting a little longer and doing things a little differently, they can turn things around and make the man “Mr. Right.” That never works, the wrong man for you will still be the wrong man for you even after waiting patiently.
Sure, there will be mixed signals from him, with some making it seem like you have found your soulmate. The connection can feel so strong and overwhelming, and you might be deceived into thinking you will never feel this way about anybody ever again.
But a serious committed relationship needs more than signs and clues. There should be solid reasons why the person fits the bill.
The right person for you will be perfect for you and there will be no doubts in your mind about it.
So, when you are with the right person, understand this. For many of us, it is easy to see what we stand to lose if we let the person go. But what’s important to consider is what we can gain by ending a relationship that is clearly not heading anywhere.
When a man loves you, they will want you and overcome any challenge to ensure you remain together under all circumstances. That is how real love works.
And so, if he is not the one, don’t shut off the possibility of meeting the right person just yet. You might have to go through a few more tries, but it will be worth it.
If he does not want you now, don’t expect that he ever will. And the moment you leave, the truth about the relationship will hit you because you will see how easily they let go of you. You will also realize that you were the only person holding the relationship together.
Sometimes life is tricky because it never gives us any reassurances. You never truly know what to expect when you step into the unknown to seek your heart’s desire.
That can make leaving a current partner, even if they are not perfect, difficult.
But accept this: even though relationships are hard and complicated. Knowing whether you are getting what the relationship should offer you shouldn’t be hard.
Don’t count on certainty that you are with the wrong person. Having doubts about a person’s suitability as a long-term partner should be enough evidence that the relationship is not working out as it should.
When you are indecisive, it means you know what to do but are just stalling or trying to find reasons against a decision that’s right before your eyes.