Mental strength is the answer to any stressful situation.
But unlike our eye color, it isn't something that we are born with.
It has to be learned and developed.
Even if you have a family history of depression, mental toughness can still be yours.
What Is Mental Strength
With mental strength, comes the ability to think rationally.
Combine that with having control of your emotions and you are achieving that strength.
In order to be mentally strong, you have to be aware of your thoughts and emotions.
This can be achieved through the practice of mindfulness.
Mindfulness eventually leads to responding rather than reacting to a situation.
What Mental Strength Is Not
Mental strength is often mistaken for unemotional, bossy, or aggressive behavior and never asking for help.
Acting tough is not mental strength.
Mental strength doesn't require ignoring emotions.
Mental strength isn't ignoring any pain you may be experiencing. It requires you to find the source and fixing it.
It avoids overthinking and opts for rational thinking instead.
Now that we know what mental strength is and isn't, let's build it up.
Control Your Emotions
Whether you are the supervisor of a team, head of household, or both, you are expected to perform despite how you are feeling.
Inspire A Fresh Perspective
Even when it feels like you against the world, don't lose sight of what needs to be accomplished.
Welcome Change
You should never be too comfortable to adapt to change. Flexibility and adaptability are two very valuable traits to possess.
Never Crack Under Pressure
Maintain resilience by developing multiple ways to handle stress.
Stay Prepared
Sometimes life throws us situations that we may not always know how to handle. At least supply yourself with the resources so that you aren't showing up to the battle empty-handed.
Stay Focused
No matter what may be presently taking place around you, never lose sight of your long-term goals.
Practice Acceptance
Face it. There are going to be things that you cannot control. Instead of complaining about them, accept them, and move on. Next!
Please Yourself
People-pleasing is dead or it should be. Aim for what is right and makes you happy instead.
Maintain Control
No one should be given the power of controlling your happiness. The power is yours and yours alone.
Never Give Up
You don't want to find out that you gave up just as you were about to win the race.
Keep Your Standards High
Society has made it a trend to look down on those with high standards. Once you have raised your standards, I wouldn't recommend lowering them for anybody.