I know you have failed at something you poured your heart and soul into.
A relationship you believed would last a lifetime has come to an end. The person you loved so deeply is no longer in your life. All you are at the moment is miserable and disappointed. Your dreams have been crushed in an instant.
Be honest, many of you agree with this, and that's because it is the absolute truth.
I think I speak for most people when I say we have all shared this experience. Our hearts have been broken again and again, and our hopes and dreams have been shattered. We have failed, and many of us have been failed by others. Sadly, some of us have completely given up.
But if you are among the few brave and courageous, then you have not let go of your hope for a better tomorrow. You are probably still fighting, and there is a good reason why.
It's because you know deep in your heart that what is meant to be will be. The thing you want in your life will ultimately be yours.
Despite our earnest efforts, life does not always take us down the path we want to travel.
That is why we come up with all these beautiful imaginations but then end up with disappointment because everything does not work out as we expected.
We have fantasies about the kind of love we want in our lives, but instead, we end up with our hearts broken. We decide that something new and exciting is worth a try, but then it blows up in our faces.
A few such experiences can have us think we don't have what it takes to make it.
We try, but we cannot understand why we keep failing. We fail to understand why bad things follow us wherever we go. Nothing makes sense, because we don't recall ever doing anything worth the pain and disappointment we have suffered.
Instead, we feel like the entire world is out to frustrate our plans and take joy from our lives. Few things can be as exhausting.
However, a time is coming when something great will happen. In an instant, we'll understand that we can rise from the ashes and start all over again.
Our strength will be restored, our courage will come back and we'll keep trying again and again until we finally succeed. Having learned from our mistakes, nothing will get in our way. Be stronger, and nothing will derail our plans. Nothing will keep us from attaining our goals.
This is precisely how it should be with you.
Forget about your past relationships. Forget the great chances you missed.
That happened in the past, and it's now over. So, let the future remain where it belongs - in the past. After all, there is nothing you can do about it.
This is what you should be doing with your time and resources – pursuing your dreams. Don't let discouragements distract you, because a beautiful future awaits you.
Know that you deserve the very best in life, and don't give up on getting that.
But even as you do this, understand that you will not have instant answers to every question you have. You might not also always succeed every time you try. What you need to have is patience and focus until you attain your dreams.
If you do this, the things that are meant to be in your life will be. The kind of people you want in your life will find their way into your life when the time is right. So, don't worry too much that they are not here yet. Life might not follow your schedule, but it will always give you what you deserve and seek.
So, stop giving up. Give up the petty stresses of life and do your part. What's yours will find its way to you.