Life can sometimes be unfair. We all wish to spend all our life with that person who we want to be with. However, sometimes you are forced to separate from your soulmate. You will find yourself trying to deny that the love of your lie ended up spending their life with someone else, but things happen. Maybe you met at the wrong time, or something happened along the way that caused you to part ways. Here are the things that happen when you are forced to part ways with your soulmate.
You adopt a completely different perspective of what love is all about
Maybe you thought that love was some kind of heaven for you. However, a breakup creates new thoughts, and you come to realize that love is different from what you always thought it to be. Its achievement is not something to joke with. The separation makes you learn more than what you thought you know regarding heart matters.
You become a completely different person
A forced break up with a soulmate can make you become a different person overnight. Since the changes occur at our core, it may take time before we become the same again. You will change both externally and internally, and the change itself may be big or small.
You will be left healing heart pains
Heartbreak is extremely painful. Watching as the person you really love walks away will extremely upset you and may leave you feeling down for a long time, but in the end, time will help your heart recover.
You will see yourself as an outsider of your own life
Moving on without being with the person you loved may sound difficult. You will definitely feel the difficulty indirectly dealing with people as your own life is falling apart. Therefore, you will end up ghosting them, but you will end up recovering from it all after some time.
You will have another relationship, but it will feel different
You will not spend all your life alone after the breakup. You will find love again, but it will not be the same as the one you lost. You can easily be with someone who is not your soulmate and start things over again.
You will become strangers
It's difficult to maintain a friendship with your soulmate after you have parted ways. To heal the heart, you will find it necessary to let them go as there is no point in reducing love into a friendship.
You will still think about this soulmate even after many years
Love is obsessive, and it wouldn't be surprising to find yourself shedding tears in the bathtub as you listen to some sad music. Every time you think about him, your heart will get stung, making you vulnerable to thoughts about him. But don't worry. You loved him, and the position you once treasured him in your heart can't be easily occupied by someone else.
You will move on with life and let the agony pass
Despite what you have gone through, you have to move on with life. However, you will have a different perspective about the world surrounding you. The breakup will make you stronger and wiser as you will have learned much about life.
I understand that losing someone you really love is extremely painful and agonizing. However, time is the best healer, and with time, you will see your life moving on. Time heals all heart pains. Don't let the breakup ruin your future.