More often than not, the way you see people is not usually who they are.
Most people want you to perceive them in a certain way, although deep down they are completely different.
People conceal their true intentions and feelings to project an image they want the world to see. And if you are not keen, you might fall for the trick.
But there is always something that will tell you who you are dealing with despite all the pretenses - ACTIONS.
The way people treat you can tell you who they really are. So, pay close attention to how people treat you, and you will know who they really are.
Liars Will Call You A Liar
If for no apparent reason, someone accuses you of lying, you need to be very careful. They might be lying to you all the time and are afraid you are doing the same to them.
Maybe you are telling them something that matters to them and they have no way of proving if you are telling them the truth. That can make them wonder if you are saying the truth because in a similar situation, they might not speak the truth.
In short, if someone is accusing you of lying, odds are that they are big liars themselves.
Cheaters Will Often Accuse You Of Unfaithfulness
Has someone ever accused you of cheating?
If you have been in a couple of relationships, chances are that you have faced this accusation, even though you were completely innocent of the crime. It might even have confused you because you did not even do anything worthy of the suspicion.
Your first reaction would have been defending yourself vigorously. But what most people don't realize is that the person making the accusation is actually the culprit.
Insecure People Will Make You Insecure
Some people are always insecure and for no apparent reason. And these people can often make others feel insecure about themselves. Most bullies have this problem, especially after being bullied and made less secure about themselves.
So, if someone always says things that make you feel insecure, know they have this problem. But you can't always blame them. So, don't act in a similar manner. Rather, try to build their confidence and they might let go of this habit.
Yes, People Always Show You Who They Are, You Just Have To Pay Attention
People act based on who they are and the feelings that dominate them. Genuinely good people always see good in others, even in people the world agrees are completely horrible.
Likewise, bad people who are always scheming, lying, and abusing will project these realities about themselves through the things they say and do to others.
So, learn to spot who you are dealing with.
That Accusation You Are Getting Is More Often Than Not A Bold Confession.
People can hide who they are when around everyone. However, their personal interactions with people bring out their real characters.