Before the rise of Netflix, staying at home was often associated with being a social outcast. Opting for a cup of tea and a good book instead of a hot date on a Friday night was considered peculiar - why would anyone prefer to stay indoors rather than go out? However, nowadays, many of us enjoy snuggling up on the couch during the week or on weekends, taking a break from our hectic lives. Nevertheless, some of us have a stronger inclination towards staying indoors than others. So, what happens when you prefer the comfort of your home but still want to pursue dating? Here's what you need to know about dating as a homebody:
1. Netflix Counts As A Date
You might be perplexed as to why society views "Netflix and chill" negatively. When you invite a guy over to watch a show, you genuinely intend to watch it. While you're not against the idea of engaging in some kissing, admittedly, you find it appealing, but that doesn't mean you're looking for a hook-up. Overall, it seems like the ideal night in.
2. You're Picky About Dates
You have the option of staying at home to indulge in some TV viewing. You have an abundance of fantastic TV shows from the past and present to catch up on. It's not worth sacrificing the chance to watch the latest trend on Netflix for another mundane first date where you can't seem to hold a conversation with the person. Although your friends may view you as overly picky, you know the reality is that any guy would have to be truly remarkable to rival your enjoyment of rewatching Gilmore Girls.
3. You Cook For Your New Guy Super Soon
Your best friend is perplexed by the fact that you're preparing dinner for the guy you've been dating for only a few weeks. However, to you, it's a completely logical decision. You enjoy the comfort of your own home and take pleasure in cooking. Rather than spending a significant amount of money at a busy restaurant, you'd rather prepare a simple meal. Additionally, it eliminates the question of who should cover the expenses.
4. Sometimes You Just Don't Care
As a single person, you desire to experience the feeling of falling in love... eventually. However, at the present moment, you're content to indulge in some reality TV viewing without any distractions. Occasionally, when your friends rave about their enjoyable dates or complain about their unpleasant ones, you find it challenging to relate because there are times when you simply have no interest in dating.
5. You Look Like You Put Zero Effort In
You don't attend first dates, parties, or outings with your friends wearing sweatpants. However, you also don't feel the need to go all-out with heavy makeup, a glittery dress, and high heels. While some individuals may consider your attire too laid-back, you're unconcerned about their opinions. In your opinion, leggings are an acceptable alternative to pants.
6. Things Get Confusing Quickly
You're experiencing conflicting emotions regarding your new relationship. While spending most of your time indoors with your significant other may give the impression of a casual hookup, the constant togetherness suggests a more serious relationship akin to living together. As a result, you find yourself feeling completely baffled.
7. You Never Want To Stay Over
Although you genuinely like this guy, you find yourself struggling to resist the allure of your bed. You frequently encourage him to spend the night at your place instead of his. It's apparent that you have a strong attachment to your personal space, and you tend to be co-dependent in that regard. Nevertheless, it seems that he doesn't mind the arrangement.
8. You Always Initiate The Talk
The dreaded conversation that many people try to evade - the "define the relationship" talk. Despite only a few weeks of being involved with someone, you don't hesitate to inquire about their thoughts and feelings. You don't have the patience for ambiguous get-togethers because you lead a busy life and have other things to occupy your time (or watch, perhaps).
9. It's Real When You Want To Go Out
When you propose going out on a date, it's a clear indication of your deep interest in that person. You'll be willing to ditch your comfortable leggings and don a pretty dress to go out for dinner, a movie, or other activities. As a homebody, the ultimate objective is to discover someone you care for enough to venture out of your abode.
