I’m a firm believer that each relationship you get into occurs during a growing stage of your life. Even if it doesn’t last, you still get something out of it. You gain experience. And knowledge of what you do and don’t want in your future relationships. Life is preparing you for the day when you find the perfect one.
What You Don’t Realize is …
You don’t realize it, but you’re getting ready for the one person who is going to love everything about you, even when you don’t.
When a person wants to spend forever with you, they won’t care about your flaws.
When it’s the right person, what you see as imperfections, they’ll see as absolute perfection.
All the small things you hate about yourself, they will love. That’s what they will enjoy most.
This person is going to love you for being you. Whether it’s your wild, uninhibited side, or your ability to handle challenges, the right one will appreciate it all. If you snort when you laugh, they will laugh harder because they think it’s adorable.
They’ll value your opinions. If it’s different than theirs, it doesn’t matter. They won’t try to change the way you think. They might even learn to see things from your point of view.
Everything Has a Reason
Before, I mentioned how every relationship is preparing you for your final relationship. Unfortunately, we often go through some pretty bad ones before we find our happy ending. Don’t give up hope. You may have to kiss a lot of frogs, but they’re gearing you up for Prince Charming.
And he won’t mind that you overanalyze everything because of what the previous frogs did to you. He’ll understand that you come with collateral damage: insecurities, fears, doubts. You might have days where you feel like you’re going to get lost in the darkness of your thoughts.
But like the prince he is, he’ll be there to hold your hand, so you don’t stumble through the darkness alone. He will be the light at the end of the tunnel that will guide you back to clear skies.
The right one will not run away because of a fight. Instead, Prince Charming will want to communicate with you. He will want to understand the problem and fix it.
If a lightbulb burns out in your house, you aren’t going to torch the whole house to the ground. You’ll change the bulb.
When you have a breakdown, he will be there to build you back up. When you feel weak, he’ll be your supporting wall. The right one will stay by your side, sheltering you from the storm. They’ll remind you that once the storm clears, the skies will be bluer than ever.
Everything Feels Right
Your weirdness is their weirdness. You balance each other out. You can spend hours making jokes that only the two of you will find funny. You’ll feel comfortable enough showing them the goofy sides of you that very few get to see. The side you hide from the world because you’re scared of judgment. But don’t worry. Prince Charming is as big of a goofball as you – maybe more. That’s why they’ll be perfect.
The right one won’t freak out over how hard you love. While most partners find your affection too much, the right one will love it. They will appreciate the various ways you express love. It’s grabbing their favorite drink before you see them. Or that you decided to cook their favorite meal after they’ve had a hard day at work.
Your efforts to spoil him will make him feel like a king. And in return, he’ll treat you like the Queen you are. Your gestures will make him feel like the luckiest person in the world. And he are – because he’s found you.
If they’re the one, they’ll never need a break. Each day they spend with you will be the best day of their life.
And above all else, the right one will never lie to you, leave you, or hurt you. He will guard your heart as much as he does his own. You will be safe with him, heart, body, mind, and soul.