If you're wondering how to do sexting with your boyfriend, we've got the best How to Sexting Guide you'll find. If you've never sexted before, you might not understand the ins and out. Or maybe you've tried it but had disastrous results. We're going to help you become a sexting professional so you'll be ready to toss out the best dirty text messages to get your man excited.
How To Sext With My Boyfriend?
Some of you might not be sure what sexting really is. Let us clarify. When you are sexting someone, you are using text messages to engage in some type of sexual behavior.
It could be that you're exchanging risque photos with each other, or maybe you're sending dirty texts as a form of foreplay.
Sexting your boyfriend or even your husband is a great way to keep the spark alive in your sex life. And it's a fun way to build up the anticipation of what's to come.
How To Write Sexting Messages For Him
So you've decided you want to try sexting your boyfriend. Now what? Well, here comes the fun. It's time to come up with some interesting things to say. But wait! Isn't sexting all about nude photos?
Nudes work great for increasing the intimacy between you and your partner. I'm not ashamed to admit I've sent a racy photo or two to my boyfriend when he's having a bad day.
I like to think of it as our own private "Cheer up" card. Not Hallmark approved!
If you want to make a statement with dirty pictures, try different locations and positions. Instead of showing everything you've got, make it a naughty, teasing image instead.
Let him get a glimpse of Paradise without actually getting to taste the fruit, so to speak. Snapping a photo of your behind in a cute pair of undies is a great sexting tool.
Keep It Light and Flirty
Not everyone is going to be comfortable posing intimately in front of the camera and that's okay. You can still sext without ever sending a single photo.
Maybe I'm biased since I'm a writer but I like to think words have as much power as images. Sometimes, it's more fun to use your imagination.
Sexting is no different. Your goal with sexting is to get your partner turned on without having any physical interaction.
If you're in a long-distance relationship, sexting will be your secret weapon to keep your relationship healthy between visits.
With that being said, you don't have to get explicit if you're not comfortable doing that. It's perfectly okay and even useful to keep your texts flirty and filled with innuendos instead of outright details.
Flirty Sensual Sexting For Him
Sexting doesn't have to be vulgar and lewd. If you want to keep your sexting free of dirty talk text, these five sexts will work for you.
Sending any of these sexts will excite your partner without being so brazen that he'll drop everything and run home to rip your clothes off.
1. I'll be having a few drinks with some friends tonight. I might or might not end up sending some totally inappropriate stuff. Don't mind me. It's the liquor talking.
2. Should I wear pink or blue panties today?
3. There's nothing better than a long hot shower. Well, maybe having someone to wash my back. Too bad you weren't here to help.
4. I can't wait for you to see my new lingerie.
5. Guess what I'm wearing?
Naughty Sex Messages For Your Boyfriend
If you're in the mood to get your sexting to the point where your boyfriend's mind is only on sex, we've got five naughty messages that you can use.
These messages work as a great starting point for your sexting if you're looking to get the mood set. They're not explicit so most people should feel comfortable using them.
1. All I've been able to think about all day is you … naked.
2. I miss the taste of you.
3. I wish your hands were on me. Now. Right this second.
4. I'm craving some time with you. Clothes optional.
5. I just got out of the shower. I thought of you while I was washing. Wishing it was your hands.
Raunchy Dirty Texts For Him
There might be times when you want to send a message that drives your man wild. Maybe you're trying to initiate phone sex. Or you're trying to set the mood for an encounter later.
These text messages are sure to get your man's motor racing. Don't be surprised if he calls you up for a quick round of phone sex or demands to see you in person ASAP.
1. It's driving me crazy thinking about how good you make me feel.
2. I'm thinking of you and my mind went straight past the gutter and right into the bed. And boy, is it hot in there.
3. I'm so turned on right now. I had to go commando.
4. I made friends with a wall today. It said you could pin me to it anytime.
5. I've had a stressful day. I need some help burning off some frustration.
Using Sexting To Explore
One of the great things about sexting is that you can share your fantasies with someone while hiding behind a screen.
If you're nervous about telling your boyfriend something you're into, it can be easier to lay the fantasy out in a text. Once they're through reading, they'll be so excited there's no way they'll turn you down. Try these five fantasy sharing sext messages.
1. I have sexual fantasies I want to explore. With you.
2. Trying new stuff is so erotic. Want to help me test out this new thing I learned?
3. I've got something I've always wanted to try but I've never felt comfortable enough with another man. Want to help me give it a shot?
4. I trust you and I want you to help me make my fantasies come true.
5. Tell me your fantasy and let's see if I can make dreams into reality.
Now You Know How To Sext A Guy
Use our suggestions to get yourself started with sexting your boyfriend. But don't be afraid to tweak what we've said. Or jump completely off the rails and come up with your own thing. Be inspired by our tips and make sexting a regular part of your relationship. Your boyfriend is sure to love it.