An 18-year-old revealed that she's dating her estranged biological father. A young woman is even talking about a wedding and babies.
In an interview with The Cut, a teenager revealed that after being estranged for 12 years, her father is back in her life. This time, he's her boyfriend.
Describing her experience, the young woman said that when she was 17, "consensual incest" took place. It occurs when a parent and child have been estranged for an extended time and then reunite as adults.
She told the magazine that she was conceived when her parents were 18 on their prom night. The father was absent for most of her life, and her mother had mental health issues. She was raised mostly by her grandparents.
Things got out of thanks to Facebook
The teen said that she lost touch with her father when she was five. A decade later, she wanted to look him up. She believes that her dad couldn't stay in touch due to her mother's controling nature.
One day, she accepted his friend request on Facebook. Soon after, they discovered that they had many things in common. They liked the same art, TV shows, and the connection grew. Funny how genetics can mess up your life.
The teen also found herself thinking that her dad's a hottie. As she told in an interview:
"You wouldn't have believed we hadn't been around each other for 12 years. "
"It was so weird and confusing. I was seeing my dad for the first time in forever, but it was also like, He's so good-looking! And then I was like, What the hell are you thinking? What is wrong with you? I saw him as my dad, but then also part of me was like, I'm meeting this guy who I have been talking to over the internet and really connecting with, and I find him attractive."
Wanting to get away from her mom, the woman went to her dad's. On the fifth day of her stay, everything changed.
Losing virginity to her father
At the time of her stay, her dad was living with his girlfriend. She told her dad that she hated sleeping in new places so that we would check on her every night. He was supposed to sleep on the floor, but that's not what happened.
"Sleeping in new places makes me very anxious, so I asked him to stay with me in case I had one of the terrible nightmares I usually experience. The second night I had him sleep on the couch again, and then the third night, I fell asleep with him on the floor lying on his chest, in his arms."
"The fourth night rolled around, and we ended up on the floor again. This time we actually cuddled. When he woke up, we were spooning. I didn't know this at the time, but later, after we admitted our feelings, he told me he had had 'morning wood' and had gone to fix it."
Soon enough, the couple talked about their feelings and sex. She stated:
"I told him I wanted him to be the first person I made love to. We talked about how it could be awkward if it didn't end up working out. He also said that if I didn't feel comfortable at any point, I should tell him."
Before going to her dad's, she was a virgin. She recalls their first night as a couple:
"We discussed whether it was wrong, and then we kissed. And then we made out, and then we made love for the first time. That was when I lost my virginity."
"It was insanely sensual. It lasted for about an hour, and there was a lot of foreplay. We both had orgasms. We are so similar, so it's so easy to sexually please each other. For example, we both love neck-biting. I've never been in a more passionate, loving, fulfilling situation."
It's not hard to understand her thinking, but he's a father, and a full-grown adult, so one could only say that her mom's not really the one with issues.
One big happy family
The father-daughter couple now lives with his girlfriend. The big twist is that the girlfriend is now a roommate, and the daughter is a girlfriend.
As the girl explained:
"She found out when she heard us making love. I guess we didn't realize how thin the bedroom floor was. She really didn't mind. Now we're like a little family. She calls me her daughter."
She added that they now all live together as a family. What's even more concerning is that everyone knows:
"Everyone on my mom's side of the family sees us as father and daughter. Those who know that he's my dad and that we are engaged include my father's parents (they can see we are happy together and they can't wait for us to have babies — they treat us just like any other couple), the woman we live with, and my best friend."
The wedding is already planned out
The teen seems eager to marry her father, and yes, she does know that's illegal, though she doesn't care.
They already have it all planned out, from the color scheme to their outfits and table settings. As she said:
"I want it to represent our uniqueness, so we aren't doing a white wedding."
"The color scheme is black and purple, and we are both going to wear Converse tennis shoes. He's wearing jeans and a nice dress shirt. He says he's not wearing a bow tie, but it's my wedding, and I am saying that he is."
"My grandmother and grandfather – my fiancé's parents – are going to attend, and my grandpa will give me away."
As for the rest:
"The tables will have bouquets of trees without leaves to represent our marriage, which will be like a growing tree. My dress will be black."
Ever since her story broke, people around the world have been begging her not to go through with it. According to some research, becoming attracted to an estranged parent after being reunited is 50 percent. Yet, it's just a passing attraction, and most people understand that it's merely because of similarities, which are all stocked safely in our DNAs.
However, having sex with your father, planning a wedding and babies when you're still a baby yourself sounds like a recipe for disaster.
Creepy, soul-crushing, and illegal. Hopefully, she will come to her senses and realize that she was looking for romantic love in the worst possible place.