Alicia ThornePublished in January 2020 / Updated in December 2020
There is no easy way to say this, so I’ll just say it: some people will never love you, no matter how much you would like them to.
That’s true for everyone, so it’s not just you.
But with some people, it’s easy to accept this difficult truth because you don’t like the person either. The problem starts when the person who doesn’t love you is the person you love or admire.
Therefore, one of the hardest things you will ever do is letting go of people you love because they don’t have similar feelings for you.
It’s a huge mistake giving your affection to someone who is not willing to receive it. It will drain you of your precious energy, your time, and your mental stability.
Not Everyone Cares If You Are Happy With Your Life Or Not
In fact, not everyone wants you to have a good and happy life.
And it can feel like maybe you are doing something wrong and need to change your ways to earn their affection.
But that’s not it.
Some people leave you out, insult you, forget you, and disregard you because you don’t mean as much to them as you hoped you would.
Not everyone is meant for you, just as you are not meant for everyone.
In life, only a few people can be your true friends, no matter how popular you are. With love, only one person will love you and all you are.
Everybody Is Special
The reason you don’t get along with some people is that they are meant to get along with someone else and vice versa.
So, it’s time you put a stop to those pathetic attempts at making people like you. You are wasting your affection and attention on the wrong people. Put that focus on those who love you and you will be happier in this life.
That is why you should let go of people who see you as an option and focus on those who make you a priority.
If a relationship makes you doubt its ability to survive the moment you get a little distracted and lose your focus, then it’s time to think if it’s what you need in your life.
A relationship that fails the moment you stop calling is not worth it. The other person should make as much effort to call if you have somehow lost touch.
Love Is Always Two-Sided
No single party makes all the effort while the other waits around or goes about their other commitments.
But more importantly, don’t think it’s your fault the relationship stopped working. What you should understand is that you were in the wrong relationship.
You were attached, but there was no loving connection between the two of you. And you were wasting your time and energy. That is why you were always bothered and anxious.
Love Starts With You
Love yourself first and you will know who deserves a place in your life and who doesn’t. Give your attention to loving and caring people rather than those soul-sucking fake friends.
Don’t give yourself to people who don’t give a damn about you.
Beware of people you feel pity for because they need you, only for them to forget about you as soon as they are back on their feet.
Nothing Good Will Ever Come Out Of A Bad Relationship
Let go of the wrong people in your life and see the beautiful and happy possibilities they were keeping you from attaining. If you manage that, everything will change and you will be very happy with your life.