Passionate and destructive relationships can be the most fun, but they are the most dangerous relationships one can ever have. It is not rare to find two people who have hopelessly fallen for each other, being physically compatible but having a relationship that is completely toxic. If you are in a relationship like this, read to find out why this might be the case.
It can be quite confusing sometimes, to physically click with someone and at the same time be worlds apart emotionally. Fortunately, that is where the zodiac sign compatibility comes in. You can use it to get your head around this very confusing, yet very important issue.
Even though one might be having the time of their lives physically, when it becomes clear that you are not emotionally compatible with your partner, please do not ignore this fact. It’s not worth sticking around this kind of relationship because, in the end, it could turn out to be quite unhealthy for both parties. You do not want this, do you?
Before we dive into the zodiac signs that are emotionally incompatible but physically compatible, let us first understand the ‘opposites attract’ issue regarding zodiac signs, shall we? In zodiacs, different signs have different characteristics that define them. Aquarius, Taurus, Scorpio, and Leo are known as Fixed Signs. They are characterized by wanting to maintain status quo. Capricorn, Aries, Libra, and Cancer are Cardinal Signs, initiative-takers by nature. The third modality comprises of Pisces, Gemini, Sagittarius and Virgo that are characterized by being adaptable.
If you find yourself totally attracted to someone with a personality that is not compatible to yours, it could be because of polarity-the opposites attract rule. The downside to this is that eventually, these opposites may end colliding leading to emotional incompatibility to the point of toxicity.
There are six pairings which are physically compatible yet emotionally toxic. Take a look.
1. Virgo ( August 23- September 22) and Pisces ( February 19-March 20)
The Virgo and Pisces find each other extremely fascinating and seductive in a mysterious way. This is quite interesting. The Pisces is usually wild and fun loving while the Pisces finds the Virgo new and refreshing. Even this being the case, with time things start to fall apart. Virgos usually tend to be specific while their opposites, Pisces, are easy going and like to go with the flow. This is where the trouble begins. They start driving each other crazy since they start to feel judged by each other. This constant backward and forward arguments lead to emotional toxicity coupled with feelings of frustration.
A very interesting fact, however, is that with this being the situation, both parties usually are aware of the situation and just how different they are. There is a chance that the relationship could work because of this self-awareness.
2. Leo ( July 23-August 22) and Aquarius ( January 20- February 18)
Have you ever met someone and you guys hit it off right away? You end up clicking immediately, and you get that things are moving quite fast? Well, chances are that the two of you are a Leo and an Aquarius. At first, you will find each other to be awe-inspiring, and physically your relationship will be quite steamy. However, when the dust settles, you will realize that your emotional connection may be quite weak. Not connecting emotionally is where your problems will begin.
The Aquarius is characterized by being detached. On the flip side, Leos, love attention, and if they do not get it, especially from the most important person in their lives, they feel frustrated and miserable. The detached one does not want to deal with the ‘overly dramatic’ one, so the relationship fails. Everyone goes their way because they simply feel undervalued.
3. Cancer ( June 21- July 22) and Capricorn ( December 22-January 19)
This is probably the most common kind of relationship. The Cancer is sensitive and touchy-feely while their opposite, the Capricorn, is practical. Capricorns don’t tend to handle emotions in the best kind of way. This leads to a lack of communication, and eventually, the two parties have resentment towards each other because they are just not on the same page.
Capricorns and Cancers can learn to live with each other if the Capricorn can provide security ( which they love by the way) and the Cancer gives the Capricorn the comfort they need ( which they also love doing). For this type of relationship, communication is critical.
4. Gemini ( May 21-June 20) and Sagittarius ( November 22-December 21)
This kind of relationship is kind of complicated. The Gemini and the Sagittarius have similar characteristics. They are both curious, open and can hold grudges. This similarity can be quite interesting, and they can be happy for a while until they get bored or lose priority. Then problems begin.
With the loss of interest in each other, they stop being emotionally available for each other. The result? The relationship becomes toxic and unfulfilling.
5. Taurus ( April 20-May 20) and Scorpio ( October 23-November 21)
Physically, the Scorpio and the Taurus match. They can perfectly match each other’s energy. Sometimes this energy might be too much that it can lead to emotional exhaustion. What results from this situation is that both parties being to get irritated by each other. Slowly this irritation starts manifesting itself in small ways. The relationship then gets toxic. If you happen to be in this kind of relationship, try spending some time apart from your partner. It might go a long way in saving that relationship.
6. Aries ( March 21- April 19) and Libra ( September 23- October 22)
Generally, “variety is the spice for life,” and Libras know just how to deliver this. Aries, on the other hand, are adventurous in nature, making this combination pretty flavourful-physically. Unfortunately, this isn’t enough emotionally. The Libra complains that the Aries is a little bit too impulsive while the Aries complains that the Libra is indecisive. These arguments lead to a toxic relationship. They both feel uncomfortable with the relationship since they both feel like they are being forced to do what they don’t like and become who they are not. No one likes to get lost in a relationship.