We all spend so much time out of our lives looking for the right person, the one with who we can spend the rest of our lives. Why is it so hard to find someone that we spend so much of our lives looking for? How can you know if the person that you found is the one? It’s said that you will know in your heart when you meet the right person, but the following signs can help you know for sure you’ve found the right one.
He is not only your boyfriend but your best friend too
Do you trust your guy with all your secrets? Do you laugh and enjoy doing everything together? In a healthy relationship, you need to be compatible both romantically and from the friendship perspective.
The relationship grows naturally
A lot of relationships may grow even if the couples are not meant for each other. They stick together because they think that time has caught up with them. If your relationship progresses and grows even after a long period of time then your future is bright.
You trust him
You should not feel insecure about or doubt his whereabouts. When you find someone who you know won’t disrespect you or lie to you, then you have found the right one. You should trust him as a friend, share all your secrets with him without feeling bad about it.
You do things without expecting something in return
Do you think about him the whole day? You don’t hesitate to do things that make him happy such as preparing his favorite dishes. The best way of making your spouse know that you care about him is through these small and sweet gestures.
He cheers you up
The right guy will make you smile and laugh all the time. Happiness is the key to a successful relationship, and therefore smiles and laughter are very important.
You try to be your best self
When you are in a good relationship, you will always want to be your best version for you and him. You motivate each other to go after your big goals. You know that he will always have your back all the time.
You don’t play games with each other
The dating games are over, and you don’t care who texts first. You don’t need to play hard to get. You don’t make anyone jealous, and all you care about is him and your happiness. These games end when you find and commit to a serious partner.
Texting him first is not an issue
The number of texts you send or who texts first doesn’t matter in a healthy relationship. Sending many texts simultaneously is not a big deal. It’s just a way of communicating with each other.
You can be the real you
It is unique to find someone who lets you be yourself without being judged. You don’t hide your feelings or feel awkward. You will know that he is the right one when he loves you when you are at your best and at your worst.
You don’t think about dating another guy
You don’t think about dating anyone else nor do you have a plan B. Your relationship is the real deal when you find yourself not thinking about being with anyone else.
You can bring them around friends and family
Being able to bring your partner around friends and family means that your relationship is real. This is a sign that you can see a future with him and you have accepted him into your life.
You can picture a bright future
You are not scared of talking about marriage and living together. You no longer talk about yourself. instead, you talk about both of you. You have found the right one if you can picture a future together.