As far as romantic relationships go, there are few things more pleasing than the realization that the person you are attracted to is also attracted to you. But people can be hard to read, and it’s easy to miss the signals or misread the signs you can clearly see.
Let’s look into signs of unspoken mutual attraction to help you understand whether the chemistry you feel actually exists.
1. The Chemistry Is Palpable
Even without anyone saying it, you can sometimes feel that you have very strong chemistry with someone. Being around each other easily gives you an energy boost, unlike anything you can imagine.
When you share chemistry, everything flows. The conversation never seems forced. And whatever you do together seems like lots of fun. Chemistry makes you feel like you have known each other for ages, even when you barely know each other.
So, if you feel this sort of chemistry between the two of you, then that is a very powerful sign that your attraction is mutual.
And if you are not sure that you have chemistry, you can use the information you get from other people to know the truth. Believe it or not, other people can see the chemistry between two people.
If you hear people say you act differently around each other. Or suggest that you might be destined to be together, then there may be chemistry between the two of you.
2. You Share Secrets
We don’t share secrets with everyone we meet. I am even willing to bet there are people you have known all your life, but they still don’t know some things about you.
However, when you are with someone, you share a mutual attraction with, sharing secrets is very easy, and it comes naturally. When you share a secret with someone, it proves that this person also finds you attractive.
If the attraction were one-sided, you would not feel comfortable sharing intimate personal information with them. You would be nervous instead.
If you often tell this person things you have never told anyone before, then there’s a very good chance that the attraction you share is mutual.
If the secrets you share are intimate, then you can also know that the person is thinking about you sexually. And that’s something else you should note. Just because the attraction you share is mutual; it does not mean it’s romantic. At times, you might end up as really good friends, which is fine too, as long as everyone is okay with it.
3. You Never Tire Of Each Other’s Company
I’m sure you have experienced this: you met someone, talked and talked, and could not have enough of each other. Even after you met a couple of times later, you were still not over each other and didn’t get fed up.
Don’t always imagine that the person is just as happy to be around you as you are to be in their company.
Yes, it could be that the person is especially charming. But if you both enjoy each other’s company so much, then odds are that you share an unspoken mutual attraction.
So, you should make sure you both enjoy each other’s company. Just because you are charmed by someone, it does not automatically mean they find you charming.
4. When You Have Unspoken Mutual Attraction, Eye Contact Is Comfortable
Eye contact is very intimate. It’s something you share only with people you are very close to. Even after knowing some people for ages, you might still not be comfortable looking them in the eye.
When you meet someone and find yourself comfortable looking into their eyes, that demonstrates a rare comfort level that only exists among people who share a strong attraction.
5. You Make An Effort To Impress Each Other
Have you ever felt eager to let someone see the best side of you? You are not the only one. More importantly, that usually proves that you like this person.
The dead giveaway that the person feels the same about you is evidence that they are also making an effort to impress you. On a very deep level, this shows this person thinks about you a lot and cares about your opinions.
It’s very natural to care what those we like to think about us. This is why we usually make an effort to impress them by dressing better, being better communicators, and trying to be more fun when in their presence.
If you feel someone deserves to see the best of you, that clearly proves you are attracted to them.
Unspoken attraction can be hard to decode at times, but it can tell a lot about your relationship with the person. Above are very clear signs that the attraction you feel towards that special friend you have just made goes both ways.
As you will realize, in almost all these cases, the effect has to be mutual before you can say the attraction is mutual as well.
If you are the only one who enjoys their company, shares the intimate secrets, tries to impress the person, and so forth, then you might be wrong about the sort of chemistry you share.
Keep these signs of unspoken mutual attraction in mind while trying to dissect and understand this relationship dynamic to avoid disappointment and frustration.