310 Sexual Questions To Ask Your Girlfriend And Get Her Excited

Did you know you can set your girlfriend's sexual passions on fire with a simple dirty question? The best part is that you don't have to struggle thinking of the right questions yourself: we have a long list of all the questions you need to get the job done.

As you flirt with your girl using these questions, remember to work in genuine compliments, add a bit of mystery to the questions, work on your texting in general, and of course, have a sense of humor.


Whether your relationship is in its first flushes or not, with these sexual questions to ask your partner, you can keep the flames of your passion from dying out, especially in a long-distance relationship.

This should be fun, and the questions can really spice things up in the bedroom. It is also a great way to learn more about her boundaries and explore important relationship issues.


You don't need every question you see here. You can choose which sexual questions to ask your girlfriend or even use them as an inspiration to come up with your own.

In other words, you are right where you need to be.

Innocent Sexual Questions To Ask Your Girlfriend

These questions are "innocent" in that they don't sound too personal or sexually suggestive. Otherwise, you could try using dirty questions to tease her and build attraction.


The idea is to have some fun, flirt, and get the girl comfortable with the idea of you talking about sex with you.

1. Do you think sex should be fun or romantic?

2. Do you like to sext?

3. Would you like to go on a date with me?

4. What do you consider the sexiest outfit in your collection?


5. What part of your body do you like to be kissed the most?

6. What do you like the most about sex?

7. What do you think about sex on the first date?

8. Would you invite someone in on the first date?

9. How was your most recent erotic dream?

10. What particular outfit would you like to see me in?

11. Do you prefer to sleep with or without clothes?

12. Do you like being asked naughty questions?


13. What would you do if I kissed you right now?

14. What do you think about sex in public?

15. If I could take you on a date, where would you like to go?

16. What is the most exotic dream you have ever had about me?

Flirty Questions To Ask A Girl

These questions are a little suggestive, and on some level, they imply sexual intent on your part. That's why you should ask them once the idea of you getting intimate seems like a possibility.


17. Would you prefer food before sex or sex after food?

18. Would you let me kiss you?

19. Has anyone ever caught you having sex?

20. Have you ever imagined kissing me?

21. What easily turns you on?

22. Do you like sexy games?

23. Have you ever desired any kind of sexual role-play?

24. What is your favorite pair of lingerie?

25. What is the best time of the day for you to have sex?


26. Have you ever kissed in public?

27. If I got you lingerie, would you model it for me?

Dirty Questions To Ask A Girl

These questions take the sex talk a notch higher. However, make sure you ask these when you are in a serious relationship to avoid possible backlash. Here are some of the sexiest questions for a girlfriend to get her in the mood.


28. When did you last have a dirty dream?

29. Have you ever imagined me naked?

30. Do you prefer to give or receive?

31. What do you prefer, hot showers or bubble baths?

32. Do you prefer sex with lights on or off?

33. What do you expect the most out of a relationship?

34. Have you ever been in a threesome?

35. Have you ever had group sex?

36. What dreams have you had about me?


37. What is the sexiest part of your body?

38. Are you a snuggler?

39. Have you ever given a blowjob? How many times?

40. What is your favorite position?

41. Have you ever made out with a girl?

42. What scene from '50 Shades of Grey' on bondage do you like the most?

43. I'm in the shower. Would you mind joining me?

44. Where would you like to be touched?


45. What attracts you to someone sexually?

46. Have you ever tried bondage sex?

47. What part of your body do you like to be touched the most?

48. If I bought some sexy clothes, would you model them for me?

49. What turns you on good looks or intelligence?

50. What do you think about 69?

51. Do you like being controlled on being in control?

52. What is the most vulgar thing you have ever said?


53. Would you ever try bondage sex?

54. Have you ever tried skinny dipping?

55. Do you like being teased?

56. Do you think of me when pleasuring yourself?

57. What is your guilty pleasure?

58. What is your ideal lovemaking location?

59. Do you think about me when I'm away?

60. Have you ever done a striptease?

61. Which is the weirdest place you have ever had sex?


Naughty Questions To Ask A Girl

These questions are more fun than provocative but still a bit dirty. These naughty questions to ask your girlfriend will help you see her fun, wild side.

62. What would you say is the most sexually daring thing you have ever done?

63. Are you a biter?

64. Would you flash me?

65. What do you think you can do to spice up your sex life?


66. Have you ever flirted with someone you barely knew?

67. What's the most sex you have ever done in a day?

68. Have you ever made a sex tape?

69. Are you a virgin?

70. How old were you when you lost your virginity?

71. How do you feel about me?

72. What weird sex position would you like to try?

73. Have you ever flirted with a stranger online?

74. Have you ever had sex outdoors?


75. Do you like to give or receive hickies?

76. How do you feel about being kissed in public?

77. What do you think about handcuffs?

78. How far would you go with BDSM?

79. Ever been in an orgy?

80. What three words describe how you feel about me?

81. Do you watch porn?

82. Would it drive you crazy if I whispered naughty things in your ear?

83. If we had half an hour together, what do you think we should do?


84. Do you like sexual role-play?

85. Have you ever peeped in on me while changing?

86. Do you like it when I talk dirty to you?

87. What would you like to know about how I feel about you?

88. Have you ever seen another couple have sex?

89. What is the favorite part of your body?

90. What is your favorite thing about my body?

91. Do you own a vibrator?


92. Are there things you are too nervous to tell me in person?

93. Have you ever thought about having sex with one of my friends?

94. What kind of sexual fantasies do you usually have?

95. What do you prefer, missionary or doggy style?

96. When did you have your first orgasm?

97. Have you ever taken nude photos of yourself?

98. Do you have any secret fantasies?


Intense Sexual Questions To Ask Your Girlfriend

Be warned, these questions are a little serious, and you should ask them when you are sure that sexual intimacy is a given. Actually, these are the questions you ask once you start having sex. Otherwise, things can get very awkward very fast.

99. What is your favorite sexual toy/prop?


100. How many guys have you slept with?

101. (After the previous question) Can I be among them?

102. If you could sleep with a celebrity, who would it be?

103. What is the best sexual experience you have ever had?

104. Do you like being on top or bottom?

105. Are you into scratching?

106. What is on your sex bucket list?

107. What is your favorite part of a man?


108. Do you usually satisfy yourself?

109. Would you mind if we watched porn together?

110. What places outside your home would you like to do it?

111. What is the kinkiest fantasy you have about me?

112. Do you have a code word?

113. What is your favorite place to be kissed?

114. How would you feel about us watching porn together?

115. What is the kinkiest thing you have ever done?


116. Would you be open to trying the Kama sutra?

117. How happy are you with your sex life?

118. When did you first have sex?

119. Do you like quickies?

190. What does it feel when I'm inside you?

191. What erotic thoughts make you wet?

192. What is your greatest turn-on?

193. Would you feel comfortable touching yourself in front of me?

194. What kind of porn do you like?


195. Do you mind if people can hear us having sex?

196. Do you like it rough or gentle?

197. What does it feel when you orgasm?

198. How do you want me?

199. Have you ever got turned on by another girl?

200. Do you want to do it in public?

201. What do you enjoy the most during sex?

202. Have you ever thought of tying me up and doing to me whatever you want?


203. Have you ever had anal sex?

204. What are you doing later?

205. Do you prefer classy lingerie or fuzzy, pink handcuffs and blindfolds?

Daring Sexual Questions To Ask Your Girlfriend

Truth or dare is a crowd favorite, and you can enjoy a naughtier version of this game with your girl with the help of these dirty questions. This is a great non-judgmental way to explore her sexual preferences to become a better lover. Here are really dirty questions to ask your girlfriend and turn her on.


206. How would you rate our sex life from 1 to 10?

207. Have you ever made an erotic dream come true?

208. Have you ever faked an orgasm?

209. How often do you get off?

210. Have you ever done it in public?

211. What's the most flattering thing anyone has ever said about your body?

212. How do you deal with being horny in public?

213. Have you ever had a one-night stand? If yes, how did you feel about it?


214. How strong is your sex drive?

215. Would you like to ride on the front or on the back of a motorcycle?

216. How would you feel about me watching you as you pleasure yourself?

217. Do you like giving head?

Sweet Sexual Questions To Ask Your Girlfriend

Who says you can't be cute even as you talk dirty to your girl? Ask these questions to show your caring side while also learning more about the girl and her thoughts on physical intimacy.


218. Do you read erotic fiction?

219. If I found you playing with yourself, would you carry on till the end?

220. How much foreplay do you like before sex?

221. What is the shortest time it has ever taken for you to have an orgasm?

222. Do you miss my touch?

223. What are you wearing right now?

224. On average, how long does it take for you to get off?

225. What pet name would you give me?


226. How do you relax when stressed?

227. Can you guess what underwear I am wearing right now?

228. If we decided to spend the night naked and talking dirty but not touching each other, do you think we would make it?

229. Are you quiet or loud during sex?

230. Would you make out in the rain with me?

231. Have you ever sent anyone a naughty picture of yourself?

232. Do you miss me right now?


233. Has anyone ever walked on you naked?

234. What's your favorite pair of underwear?

235. What is the best part of the day to have sex?

236. If I was out shopping for clothes, would you mind sneaking into a fitting room with me?

237. Do you consider yourself a naughty girl?

238. What do you think is your strength in the bedroom?

239. How long can you go without sex?


240. Do you like listening to music when doing it?

241. Have you ever used sex during foreplay?

242. Would you mind sending me naughty pictures of yourself?

243. Do you enjoy shower sex?

244. Do you like to play around with extreme temperatures in the bedroom, like wax or ice?

245. Will I get lucky tonight?

Nice Erotic Questions To Ask Your Girl

Some perfectly innocent and nice questions can have a powerful romantic effect on your girl. They might seem harmless, but these questions can drive your girl wild with sexual desire. If you wonder what kind of questions make a girl blush, this is a good place to start.


246. Do you like to cuddle?

247. Are there times you go without panties?

248. Is there anything I can do to make it more enjoyable for you?

249. What sort of wild adventures would you like to take me on?

250. When was the first time you realized your desire to have sex with me?

251. Do you like it when I go down on you?

252. Do you think making love should happen anywhere or just in the bedroom?


253. Do you enjoy it when I watch you change clothes?

254. Can you come over and cuddle

255. Have you been thinking of spicing up your sex life?

256. Would you refer to yourself as kinky?

257. Do you like it when I touch you all over your body?

258. What is the most adventurous place you have ever done it?

259. What is the longest you have ever gone without sex?


260. Have you ever cried during sex?

261. Do you like it when I go down on you?

262. Would you mind coming over later?

263. Do you like a bit of spanking?

264. What is the favorite part of your body to have a massage?

265. Do you prefer to be dominant or submissive?

266. What things do you keep on your nightstand?

267. What to you makes someone a good kisser?


268. Have you ever seen naked photos of someone else other than me?

269. Have you ever done it while blindfolded?

270. What would make you make the first move?

271. Who do you think should make the first move in a relationship?

Dirty "Would You Rather" Questions

If you believe your girl loves games and would have fun answering fun, sexy questions about love, sex, or intimacy, here are some "what would you rather" dirty questions for girls you can use.


272. Would you rather pay or be paid to have sex?

273. Would you rather have romantic or kinky sex?

274. Would you rather get spanked or have your hair pulled?

275. Would you rather be on top or bottom?

276. Would you rather seduce or be seduced?

277. Would you rather have sex at night, in the morning, mid-afternoon, or NOW?

Dirty Questions To Text A Girl

Learning how to text is an important aspect of modern relationships. You can make your texts exciting by making them a little dirty and suggestive with these questions.


278. Can you send me a picture of you in something sexy?

279. Are you thinking about me?

280. If you could kiss me goodnight every night, would you?

281. Have you been working out?

282. If I were at your house right now, what would you like to do?

283. What was your first impression of me?

284. What do you love the most about us when we are together?

285. What can I bring you that will make you feel turned on?


286. Care for some Netflix and chill?

287. Do you want to see me without my shirt on?

288. If we had 20 minutes alone, what do we do?

289. How did you get so beautiful?

290. How would you feel about my hand going down your back?

291. When did you first realize you liked me?

292. Would you prefer a glass of wine or a 6 pack of beers?

293. What are some things you think make me like you?


294. Mind going out later?

295. Would you let me hug me?

296. Do you see me in your future?

297. What do you dream about?

298. If you came home and found me naked, what would you do?

299. Can you please lend me a hand?

300. If I showed up at your house, would you invite me in?

301. Do you prefer ribbed or studded?

302. Would you mind bringing some baby oil and a game of Twister?


303. Would you hold my hand?

304. If I was at your window at the moment, would you let me in?

305. What are you thinking about at the moment?

306. What do you think we would be doing if we were together right now?

307. What one word describes how you are feeling right now?

308. What is eth one thing that gives you butterflies?

309. Can we exchange sexy photos?


310. My place or yours?

So, What Do You Think Of These Sexual Questions To Ask Your Girlfriend?

Asking your girlfriend questions is a great way to know her better, improve your relationship, and explore issues like sexuality. Such questions can help you know your girlfriend more intimately and enjoy deeper and more honest conversations.


Above are some of the dirtiest questions to ask a girl, and you can even ask them when texting. These sexy questions can keep your romance going strong.

Lastly, remember to ease into it: don't start asking these questions out of the blue before you are barely comfortable with each other. You can start with something less suggestive by asking questions for couples. In fact, you could start with something as tame as some simple as some fun How Well Do You Know Me questions.