Dating can be complicated but yet so simple. It all depends on how you go about it. Putting yourself out there to meet new men leaves you with a lot of options. You get the good, the bad, and the ugly. That’s why paying close attention to red flags is very important.
Sometimes you see all the reasons you shouldn’t be in that relationship right in front of you. Ignoring it because you’re lonely or desperate never, and I say this in the most certain way possible, ends badly.
Being swept off your feet the first time you meet a guy isn’t an alien theory. It can happen to the best of us. But this comes with a lot of consequences, such as ignoring the little voices in your head. You know the one that speaks common sense.
When you’re on a date with anyone, you need to carefully analyze their behaviors, how their red flags could end up affecting you in the long run. All this will let you know if you want to see him again.
Why You Shouldn’t Ignore Red Flags
As mentioned earlier, dating is complicated. Some have it easier than others but trust me; no one has it easy. Some people swear off dating because of that one person who completely ruins it for them. Sometimes the red flag is all in your face, but you completely shut it out.
People usually lie to get what they want. A guy can successfully cover up all his red flags, but that’s the thing, it’s an act. And an act can’t go on forever. Sometimes it might slip, and you feel “ok, maybe I just imagined that.” This is where trusting your instincts come to play.
Dating isn’t all bad. In fact, there are lots of great relationships out there. That’s because they found partners they can work with. It makes everything a lot easier to deal with. So I’m gonna let you know of the red flags in a guy you shouldn’t ignore because it could leave you heartbroken.
Here are some red flags in a guy that could leave you heartbroken:
He Swears His Exes Are All Crazy
Here’s the thing. Whenever a guy swears his exes are all crazy, I imagine two scenarios in my head.
It’s either he’s dating crazy people intentionally, or he’s making normal people go crazy. There’s really no other logical explanation.
For some reason, not even one of his exes is a more rational person. Whenever he talks about them, they either are crazy, psycho, or manipulative. This makes you feel bad for him. It gives you the urge to want to comfort it.