Born between Oct 23 and Nov 21, Scorpio men are often the walking enigmas among us. If you are involved with one, expect lots of mixed signals.

You can get showered with lots of affection this minute and then feel a sense of detachment the next.

So, if you are deeply involved with a Scorpio man, keep reading. You have plenty to learn about this astrological sign.

The best things about a Scorpio man include the fact that he will be loyal, competitive, empathetic, passionate, very focused, logical and full of sexual energy.

That’s the good. 

The downsides of this man include a feeling of self-importance, emotional disconnection, mystery, extreme sensitivity, and a tendency to manipulate.

What Makes Scorpio Guys Great?

1. Empathy

Although Scorpio men are often described as standoffish, they are filled with empathy. They will have no problem tuning in to your emotions and knowing when something isn’t right. 

2. Loyalty

When a Scorpio is in a relationship with you, it’s just you they want. They commit and will sacrifice to ensure the relationship beats the odds.

3. Passion

Passion is a great thing, but not always. Sometimes a Scorpio guy will seem too intense, which can create the wrong impression especially at the beginning of the relationship. But otherwise, if you like passion, you will be glad you have a Scorpio man in your life.

4. Logic

When it comes to resolving issues, Scorpio men have it easy. In any relationship, this is a very important trait. Obviously, this sign also comes with some bit of curiosity, which means a Scorpio guy will also notice when something is wrong and find a logical solution.

Downsides of Being With A Scorpio Man

1. Manipulation

There is a reason this trait appears at the top of this list. Scorpio men can get manipulative when jilted. So, make sure you focus your attention on your man or he might manipulate you into giving him the attention he needs. Yes, it’s selfish, and it’s not an endearing trait. But then again, you have nothing to worry about if you are not up to anything bound to make your Scorpio man jealous.

2. Secretive And Mysterious

If you think you can figure out a Scorpio man by observing his behavior, you are dead wrong. These men will leave you with more questions than answers, and you will often wonder what’s going on with them. That is why they have a “bad boy” vibe about them.

3. Distant

Scorpio men are often distant and disconnected from reality. It can seem cool at first until you realize that it also gets in your way of having an intimate connection with them. You will have to be a little more patient to make them comfortable enough with you to connect with you emotionally.

4. Self-Importance

You might have noticed that your Scorpio man is a little self-important, You might even call him a bit narcissistic. But he is not. They just get too engrossed in things that they sometimes seem to ignore the world and everyone around them and focus on solving the problem on their minds. 

There you go. If you are dating a Scorpio man, you are in for a treat. These guys have a lot of positive traits such as loyalty, which is great if you need something long-term. But also be willing to put up with some bit of mystery, detachment, and at other times, manipulation.