One of the realities you have to face in this life is that all relationships will be unpredictable to some extent. Heck, there are even people who have no idea how they ended up in relationships, but now they have no idea how they ever lived apart from each other.
Some wanted love, but they were not even looking for it when it came knocking. You were dragged to a party by your friends and were thinking of ways to get back at them for the injustice when you met the love of your life.
It could also be you were introduced to someone, seemingly randomly, and sparks flew. You fell in love, and it felt wild and strange.
Such is life.
Don't think for a moment that such love stories are random. Fate and destiny are usually busy at work here. There cannot be so many coincidences, no matter how strongly you believe in them.
Things don't just fall into place without any force acting upon them.
You might even be among those who believe that your choices are everything as far as your fate in this life is concerned. With this belief, you might believe that you have to step outside your door and put yourself out there in order to find love.
Such faith might have you think you somehow have control over your future if you put enough effort into finding the right love for you. You might decide to change your lifestyle to attract the right people or even travel more to meet new people and increase your chances of finding love.
You might even make yourself vulnerable, gather all the courage you need to put yourself out there, and even remain firm in the face of rejection. Being a person who believes that love is a war, you walk a path that is full of pain and heartbreaks because you think that is what it takes to find love.
One thing is true – when two souls meet and have an immediate connection due to the heat and passion between them, a very strong bond connects them. Maybe the two of you have tried to find love countless times in the past and had several disappointments and heartbreaks instead. For some reason, this time it feels different.
You can feel that something special is happening here and that in comparison, all past relationships fall short. Without effort, you become so attached to each other you start to lose yourselves and become one.
This relationship becomes very important to you, and you would never do anything to put it at risk. The fact that you can lose the relationship even scares you, and your greatest desire is to make it last forever.
However, a different truth awaits you – relationships are not always smooth. There is no guarantee of success. In one moment, things can seem perfect, and you might feel like you can get through anything, but then another moment awaits in which everything can change in an instant.
In fact, even with the strong love between you, you might drift apart and even take a break from each other for some time.
When this happens, find reassurance in the fact that if you two are meant to be, you will eventually find your way to each other. Things will always have a way of working out. Just take the opportunities that come your way and use them wisely, and you will have nothing to worry about. True love endures, it overcomes the impossible to flourish.
