"Netflix and chill" is a phrase that is often used as a subtle invitation to engage in sexual activity. If someone invites you to watch a TV show or movie at their place, it is important to be aware that they may have other intentions. It's important to be clear about your own boundaries and desires in any situation, and to be aware of the signs that someone may be asking for a casual sexual encounter.

1. He messages you after midnight

If someone invites you to their place in the evening, it may be a sign that they are looking for a casual sexual encounter. It is important to be aware of this possibility and to set clear boundaries for yourself. It is also important to communicate your expectations and desires clearly with the other person.

2. He makes every conversation sexual

If someone seems uninterested in your interests or accomplishments, and only wants to talk about sexual topics, it may be a sign that they are only interested in a casual sexual encounter. It's important to have open and honest communication with the person, and to make sure that your needs and boundaries are respected.

3. He wants to go straight to your house

If someone is only interested in meeting at their place or in private, and not in going out to socialize or engage in activities, it may be a sign that they are not interested in dating but only looking for a casual sexual encounter. It's important to have open and honest communication with the person and to make sure that your needs and boundaries are respected.

4. He contacts you through Tinder

It is not accurate to say that 99% of users on a dating app such as Tinder are only interested in sex. Some people may have a more casual approach to dating, but it is not fair to generalize that all users are only interested in a sexual encounter. It's important to communicate with the other person and to be aware of their intentions. If someone is only interested in meeting for a physical encounter, it may be best to move on and look for someone who is interested in getting to know you.

5. He won't see a movie in theaters

If someone expresses interest in spending time together but only wants to do it at their place or in private, it may be a sign that they are not genuinely interested in the activity they are proposing, but rather in a casual sexual encounter. It's important to communicate with the person and to make sure that your needs and boundaries are respected. It's also important to be aware of the signs that someone may be looking for a casual encounter rather than a genuine romantic connection.

6. He never stays for long

If someone visits you with the sole intention of engaging in sexual activity and then leaves immediately after, it is likely that you were a "booty call" for them. This type of encounter is purely physical, and the other person may not be interested in building a relationship or having any further contact with you. It is important to be aware of this possibility and to communicate your own expectations and boundaries clearly.

7. He makes plans at the last second

If someone is not making efforts to plan a date in advance, it may be a sign that they are not looking for a serious romantic connection. Last-minute invitations or lack of planning may indicate that they are primarily interested in a casual sexual encounter. It's important to communicate with the person and to make sure that your needs and boundaries are respected. It's also important to be aware of the signs that someone may be looking for a casual encounter rather than a genuine romantic connection.

8. He calls you by a nickname

Using a nickname for you may not always be affectionate, it could also be a way for him to avoid using the wrong name when referring to you. If he refers to every girl he meets as "baby," he eliminates the risk of using the wrong name.

9. He's already drunk before he sees you

If the text messages he sends you contain numerous spelling errors and lack coherence, it may be best to avoid spending time with him unless you are comfortable with the idea of being used solely for physical intimacy. If he is eager to meet up with you when he is drunk, it is likely that he is not looking for someone to confide in, but rather someone for sexual encounters.

10. He won't stay the night

It is not relevant whether he is tired at the end of the night, he will still refuse to stay overnight at your place. Similarly, if you attempt to spend the night at his place, he will offer to pay for a taxi for you to go home, as he is not interested in having you stay the morning. This type of behavior is typically reserved for romantic relationships, and he is only interested in sexual encounters.