I made an effort to impress my boyfriend's parents when I met them, but it turns out they don't like me. However, after hearing their reasons, I'm not bothered by it.

1. They Have A Problem With My Sexuality

Despite the progress made in society, some still hold intolerant views towards the LGBTQ+ community. I am open about my sexuality, so when my boyfriend's parents asked if I had ever dated a woman, I answered honestly. Unfortunately, they condemned my sexuality and cited religious beliefs to justify their intolerance. Though their words were hurtful, I refuse to deny who I am to please them. I am proud of my bisexuality and won't hide it for anyone.

2. My Religion Or Lack Thereof Is A Problem For Them

Not only were they unhappy with my sexuality, but they were also outraged when they discovered that I don't believe in God. They went on a tirade, claiming that I'm surrendering to Satan, that I'm destined for eternal damnation, and that I'm God's greatest letdown (believe it or not). Frankly, their opinions didn't affect me. I won't change my beliefs for anyone, and it's ridiculous that my lack of religious faith is enough for them to harbor ill feelings towards me.

3. We Don't See Eye To Eye On Many Political Issues And I Love Fighting Back

I'm the kind of person who stands up for what I believe in, especially when it comes to social issues and politics. I don't shy away from debates and always try to bring in both facts and empathy to support my stance against injustices. However, when I argue with my partner's family, they counter with stories they read on right-wing websites that are not based on reality. Despite this, I won't stop speaking out about important issues such as women's rights, racism, and other social justice matters.

4. Apparently, My Skirts Are Too Short

It's disappointing that in the 21st century, some people still judge women based on their clothing choices, especially if they show a bit of skin. I was frustrated when my partner's parents commented on the length of my skirt, insinuating that I was inviting unwanted sexual attention from men. This kind of thinking is dangerous and perpetuates rape culture. What I wear is my choice, and it's not an invitation for anyone to harass or assault me.

5. I Have Sex And They Still Believe It's A Sin

If my boyfriend's parents knew about our sexual relationship, they would be shocked. While I respect those who choose to abstain from sex until marriage, it's a personal decision that should not be imposed on others. It was hard to keep a straight face when they talked about their son saving himself for marriage, if only they knew what we really do.

6. They Leave Me Out Of Family Gatherings And Even My Partner's Birthday

Initially, I felt upset when I realized they were intentionally leaving me out. Their actions were particularly hurtful when they didn't allow me to celebrate my partner's birthday with him. Although I was tempted to act out, I chose to take the mature approach. If they didn't want me in their lives, I didn't want to impose myself. I refuse to pretend to be someone I'm not around them just to win their approval when I know they don't accept me for who I am.

7. I Can Be Myself Without Trying Too Hard

Many individuals go to great lengths to impress their partner's parents and gain their approval, often resorting to pretending to be someone they're not. I, on the other hand, chose to be authentic, and it didn't go over well with my significant other's parents. It's disappointing that our initial encounter and subsequent interactions haven't gone smoothly, but I'm not going to dwell on it. I will remain true to myself, and if they can't accept me for who I am, then it's their loss.

8. They Avoid Speaking Directly To Me

Despite my boyfriend's parents ignoring my presence when we are together, I make an effort to remain friendly towards them. It's important to me to not let any animosity grow between us. While I know they don't approve of me, I won't let that affect my relationship with my boyfriend. Our love for each other is more important than their opinions of me.

9. Bottom Line: I'm Dating My Significant Other And Not His Parents

I had hoped to build a good relationship with my boyfriend's parents, but I came to realize that forcing it wasn't possible. What truly counts is that my boyfriend loves and embraces me for who I am. It's possible that his parents may change their opinion of me in the future, but even if they don't, it doesn't impact our relationship as a couple.