Lately, I've Learned Choosing Myself Is What's Important

Lately, I’ve Learned Choosing Myself Is What’s Important

Life has taught me something. It is not about the people you miss and want in your life, but about the people who want to be part of yours.

Our focus should not be on doors that get slammed in our faces, but on the doors that open.

I've Also Learned That Perfection Is A Mirage

It's not worth pursuing. We should learn to live with our flaws, although we should never stop working on ourselves.

Another thing I have discovered is that it's not about the people who walk out of your life but about those who walk in despite seeing the mess your life has become.

Life is not also about how many times you find yourself down. The most important thing is that you pick yourself up, brush yourself off, and move on with life.

I've also learned that healing is not always beautiful, and that tears don't always mean you are weak. Yes, those lonely moments with your thoughts help you grow.

Life Has Also Taught Me That At Some Point Or Another, You Will Miss Someone

However, that does not make you weak, it proves that the love you felt was real.

I've also learned that we heal when the time is right for us to heal. You cannot decide when to heal, or when to let go of the pain. The most you can do is work on becoming whole again.

Also, life has taught me that emotions don't follow logic. People's feelings about you don't always change, and there is no point dwelling on that or trying to change it.

In Life, What Matters The Most Is Putting Yourself Out There

Take your shot. Become the best version of yourself and don't be afraid to flaunt it. Give yourself the best chance possible in the hope that the people who get to experience it will be ready for it. But also accept that this reaction will not always be the case.

Life Has Also Taught Me You Cannot Make Someone Give You Respect

I've also discovered that it can be very hard to walk away from those who have no interest in helping you become the best version of yourself.

Life is funny in that the people who love us and want to be around us are often the most toxic influences in our lives.

In life, learn to walk away from people without getting bitter or resentful. Don't be rude either, because people remember you by how you treated them when you parted ways.

Then You Have To Learn To Forgive People Who Aren't Sorry For What They Did

Not for their sake but so you can have peace of mind and find joy in life.

Life has also taught me that the hardest person to forgive is yourself because you know where you want to be in life and the person you want to become. Against these expectations, you can be very hard on yourself.

In this journey of self-discovery and self-actualization, you will have very low moments. However, in the end, there will be people who choose to be by your side and love you. But at all times, you must learn to choose yourself, whether or not others choose you.