It's Time To Finally Give Up On That Guy Who's Not Into You

It takes courage to put yourself out there in the dating world, to forgive those who have hurt you, and to try and make things work with someone you cannot seem to let go of. But when all efforts have been made and there is no progress, sometimes it is best to move on. This is why it may be time to let go of the person who is not interested in you.

1. You've put way too much effort into him already

You have gone to great lengths to make the relationship work, but the issue is that he is not reciprocating the effort. It's important to recognize when enough is enough and to make the decision to move on. Ultimately, the decision to let go is yours to make.

2. You really do deserve better

It can be difficult to believe that there is someone else who may possess the same attractive qualities as the person you are currently interested in, and who will treat you with the same level of affection. However, it is important to remember that such a person may exist, and you will not be able to find them until you are ready to let go and move on.

3. He's keeping you from the next guy

It may seem that your current situation is clear and that if another opportunity presents itself, you would immediately leave and pursue a better relationship. However, this is not always the case. Even if the person you are interested in is not fully invested in the relationship, you may still have feelings of attachment. It is important to remember that if someone is not showing interest in you, it may be time to let go and move on.

4. It's draining your energy

It may seem that the current situation is not overly dramatic because there is no conflict or fights, however, your emotions towards him seem to be overwhelming and constant. It can be difficult to move on when you are constantly pouring your emotions into someone who is not reciprocating the same level of interest. It is important to consider that if this person is not making an effort to be in a relationship with you, it may be time to let go and preserve your emotions for someone who will appreciate and reciprocate them.

5. You've already learned every possible lesson

Every relationship teaches us valuable lessons and helps us to grow, but it takes the effort of both parties to move the relationship forward. If you feel that you are not making progress, it may be time to take what you have learned and move on to new opportunities.

6. You're not giving yourself enough credit

It is not acceptable for anyone to settle for a mediocre or half-hearted response from someone else. If you value yourself, the other person should also value you. As a smart, funny, and beautiful person, you deserve to be with someone who recognizes and appreciates those qualities in you.

7. If he really likes you, you'd know

When you come to the realization that a person is not worth your time and decide to move on, their reaction may vary. It should not require you to leave for them to understand what they have lost but some people can be dense or inconsiderate.

8. A casual relationship isn't sustainable

It is common for women to convince themselves that they are content with casual dating, but this is often a defense mechanism to prevent losing the person. Even if you are currently satisfied with this arrangement, it is likely not what you ultimately want in the long term, it is important to remember that.

9. It's better to be alone than "sort of" together

At some point, if the person is not providing you with the same level of emotional fulfillment, it may be beneficial to be more selective with the attention and energy you give to them, and focus on self-empowerment.

10. He makes you needy and/or desperate

It may not have been your initial intention, but the other person's evasiveness may have caused you to pursue them excessively, as if they were the only option available. However, it is important to remember that they are not the only person in the world and this behavior is not reflective of your true self.

11. You want to be the best you possible

A person who is not genuinely interested in you will not add value to your life, and you deserve to be surrounded by people who do. Don't let someone who is not deserving of you hold you back from living your best life.

What To Do When The Guy You Like Isn't As Into You As He Should Be

1. Call him out on it

It's important to approach this conversation in a calm and assertive manner, but don't be afraid to express your feelings directly and honestly. It's not shameful to acknowledge that you have strong feelings for the person, but that you sense they do not feel the same way. It's also acceptable to question why they are continuing to spend time with you if they are not interested. It's important to communicate that you are not an option and will not accept being treated as a second choice.

2. Take a hint

It is important to recognize the signs that the person may not be interested in you. If you find yourself consistently initiating plans, contact and trying to move the relationship forward without any effort from their side, it may be a sign that they are not interested. If you stop making the effort and don't hear from them or see them, it is an indication of their true feelings towards you.

3. Don't just ghost him

It may be tempting to avoid the confrontation of telling the person that they do not meet your expectations by disappearing from their life without explanation, but it is not the right approach. It is important to be honest and direct in communicating that the current situation is not working for you. It is also important to not leave room for uncertainty or false promises for change, as it is unlikely to happen.

4. Resist the urge to blame yourself

It can be difficult to accept that someone you have strong feelings for does not reciprocate those feelings. It may be easy to blame oneself and think that there is something inherently wrong with you. However, this is not the case. You are not lacking in any way, you are not unattractive, unintelligent or any other negative thing. You are an amazing person and this person either does not see that or is simply not the right fit for you. This is a common occurrence and it's important to remember not to take it personally.

5. Walk away

This is the best course of action to take. Wish the person well in their future relationships, maintain a cordial relationship, and move on. The sooner you let go of a situation that is not beneficial, the sooner you can open yourself up to new possibilities and opportunities. It may be difficult, but taking the first step is crucial for your growth and happiness.