We totally get why you might doubt it when your man says he'll love you for good. The world is full of jerks, that's for sure.
But we also have plenty of great men out there.
Unfortunately, Many Good Men Are Labeled As Jerks By The Women They Pursue
So, you might fight the desire to open yourself to the right man. You are probably fearful that you will end up in pain and suffer disappointment.
But let's face it. Love will forever be a risk, however careful or experienced you are on the subject.
However, don't let yourself become one of those bitter women who think there are no good men out there. With that attitude, you will lose in the game of love every time.
So, if you have found a man who says he loves you, here's how you know he is for real.
1. He Tries To Boost Your Confidence
A man who truly loves you would like you to feel the best about yourself. He wishes that you always have high self-esteem. This shows he treasures you and loves you.
2. He Says Sorry When He Makes A Mistake
This man knows that he is not perfect and that nobody is. However, despite having an ego, he can still admit when he is wrong. He can even apologize when he knows you expect him to be sorry. And no, he doesn't say sorry just for the sake of it, but because he feels remorse and wants you to feel better.
3. He Deals With The Issues In Your Relationship
When you have a falling out, he does not walk away and not give a damn. Instead, he will work on the problem and ensure it is resolved. That is because he understands that it's important that you resolve all the issues in your relationship.
4. He Brings A Smile To Your Face
With this guy, everything seems enjoyable. That's because he attempts to make things fun for the two of you. He does not want you to be so serious about everything. He wishes to make the best of all the time you spend together.
5. He Is Committed To The Relationship, And You
The man tries to prove his commitment to the relationship, and he clarifies that he has no other options. He does not do that to play it safe, but because he wants to focus entirely on you and what you can offer.
6. He Is Always Patient And Understanding
When you go astray and screw up, he does not want you to feel bad for it. He understands and is patient with you. He is very forgiving and will not hold it against you.
7. He Pays Attention To Detail
To a man who truly loves you, even the small issues in your relationship will matter. He will pay attention to everything you do. All you do in the relationship matters to him because he knows the value of maintaining a healthy relationship.
8. Your Problems Are His Problems
When he knows you have an issue, he takes it as seriously as he would his own. He will never hesitate to help whenever an opportunity arises. And he doesn't do it to impress you, but because he loves you with all his heart.
Finding true love is never easy, but it's worth the effort. The problem is that you might not even know you have found a man who truly loves you. But if you see any of the above signs, then you have no reason to worry. You have finally found him.