I want to clarify that I am not implying he's an unsatisfactory boyfriend or that your relationship has any issues. It's possible that you are content and deeply attached to him, but it's essential to recognize that being happy and in love does not necessarily guarantee a lifelong commitment. In some cases, there are additional factors to contemplate when selecting a partner for a lifetime. If any of the following indicators resonate with you, he may be fantastic, but perhaps not the one you will spend the rest of your life with:

1. You Never Fight

Despite common beliefs, occasional fighting in a relationship can be beneficial. Of course, it shouldn't happen all the time, but having disagreements is essential in moderation. It demonstrates passion, and involvement, and provides valuable insight into your partner's character. Through disagreements, you observe how they communicate when upset, their conflict resolution tactics, and the issues they may refuse to compromise on. If you've never experienced a disagreement, you haven't seen a significant aspect of your partner.

2. The Future Looks Different To Both Of You

Your partner desires to reside in a small town, whereas you prefer a big city. Additionally, they envision having three children by age 35, while the thought of having even one child makes you feel queasy. Your future aspirations are vastly distinct, and ignoring these differences is unwise.

3. You Don't Have Similar Interests

While it's true that opposites attract, people with comparable interests and values do too. For instance, it's acceptable for your partner to enjoy outdoor activities while you do not. However, if you hold strong religious beliefs and your partner is an atheist, you may encounter significant conflicts in the future if you haven't already.

4. He Doesn't Make You Better

Being a forever person is not just about making you happy, although that is crucial. They should also inspire you to become a better version of yourself. When you're with them, you should feel empowered to accomplish anything. They should encourage and support you in pursuing your dreams. If your partner encourages you to settle for less instead of pushing you out of your comfort zone, they may not be the right person for you.

5. The Same Person Always Gives In

Relationships involve a balance of give and take. It's unreasonable to expect that one person always gets their way. If this happens regularly, it indicates a lack of compromise. Both partners should have an opportunity to express their desires and come to a mutually satisfactory solution. As a couple, you should strive to find a happy middle ground.

6. One Of You Doesn't Want To Commit

It's possible that either you or your partner is not fully committed to the relationship. This hesitation may stem from nerves, a lack of interest in monogamy, or a realization that you're not meant to be together long-term. Regardless of the reason, this uncertainty is not a positive indication for the relationship.

7. You Don't Spend A Lot Of Time Together

Although you're in a relationship, you barely spend time together. While you may attribute this to your conflicting schedules, the root cause is likely differing priorities. Neither of you prioritizes spending time together, which raises the question of why you're in a relationship at all.

8. Sex Doesn't Excite You

The more you engage in sexual activity with him, the more you recognize the dullness of your sex life. While he may not be the worst sexual partner you've had, he certainly isn't the best. In fact, you prefer using a vibrator over being intimate with him. If you've been in a long-term relationship, and the sexual experience remains lackluster, it's improbable that it will improve.

9. He Doesn't Get Along With Your Family

Family is a significant aspect of any relationship. If your partner does not get along with your parents, and the feeling is mutual, it could lead to long-term complications. Think about the awkward holiday gatherings and uncomfortable barbecues you might have to endure. It's essential to consider if you want to face such problems. Ultimately, the person you choose as a forever partner should be someone who has the approval of your parents.

10. You're Trying To Change Him

If you're continuously attempting to modify him, it's evident that he isn't the person you aspire to end up with. You've made changes to his attire, corrected his language, and suggested a job that fits your perception of an appropriate age. While I'm not stating that what you're doing is incorrect, it appears that you're settling for someone who isn't what you genuinely desire rather than seeking someone who is.

11. You Still Think About Other Guys

While you may not be cheating on your partner, it's worth considering whether you have a list of potential partners waiting in the wings. Do you have a backup plan in case things don't work out with your current partner? If this person was truly the one you wanted to spend the rest of your life with, you wouldn't have a list of "just in case" guys. All your attention and affection would be focused solely on your current partner.