One of the biggest mistakes that many women make is trying to come up with excuses for men who put little or no effort into pursuing them. The truth of the matter is that if a man likes a woman enough, he will stop at nothing in his quest to win her over. It is that simple.
Men love to do the chasing. They want to be the ones initiating the relationship. So if you have been telling yourself that he feels intimidated by you because you are strong and independent, you are wrong. If he is really into you, such things will not put him off.
As soon as a man identifies the woman he wants to be with, he goes after her. He makes it clear to her how he feels about her. However overwhelmed with family issues and work he is, he will find the time to make things work. So, if a man is reluctant to commit to you, you may want to let him go as soon as possible because he’s probably not meant to be the one.
Real men put an effort in their pursuit of their ideal woman.
A mature man sees your happiness as his biggest reward. While boys are moved by the most superficial aspects of women, real men see the bigger picture. They don’t play mind games or try to manipulate you. They are direct when it comes to saying what they want or what is on their mind. If he is self-driven, he will admire you for the strong woman you are.
A man who is really into you cannot risk losing you. He will want to talk to you all the time. Whenever you call him, he will always respond. He will also not be afraid of being seen with you in public. He will not leave you second guessing what his real intentions are.
What if he is shy?
It’s true that some men are too shy to express themselves. Even the most introverted man will find a way of communicating with a woman if he really likes her. It is a natural instinct that men have to chase as soon as they are smitten.
As a woman, you should never waste your time worrying or asking yourself why a man stopped pursuing you. If he is not interested in you, you have nothing to respond to. If you start trying to figure out why he stopped or try to win him back, you will come across as desperate. The last thing you want is a man devaluing you and treating you as less of the queen you truly are.
You don’t deserve to be pursued by a loser.
You can’t afford to waste your time staying with a man who won’t tell you where you stand with him. If you are in such a situation, you are better off leaving him alone because you are definitely much better than that. If a man truly cares about you, he will make every effort to make you happy, and he will not try to play with your feelings.