There comes a time in our lives when we say enough is enough to meaningless relationships and flings. We want to have that deep connection with someone who makes you feel unique and important to them. Someone who actually knows your worth and treats you the way you deserve to be treated. Someone who makes you happy.
So how do you know that he is the one? That he is the one you should hold on forever? There are certain things that he will do that will assure you that he is here to stay. That he takes you seriously and that he is there for the long haul. If he does these five things, then please, never let him go. He is totally worth your time.
1. He respects you
I firmly believe that a woman owes it to herself to be with someone who respects her. If he respects you, he will make you his first priority. You come above all else. Not his job, not his friends, YOU. He will respect your boundaries, your dreams, heck even your friends and family. He will gladly ask for your opinion and seek advice from you regarding both the things he considers important and unimportant.
2. He remembers the little things
Fine, men usually forget the little things. They have a problem remembering the nitty gritty of our relationships and sometimes life in general. Even this being the case, if a man remembers some of the little things, it means he genuinely likes you. If he remembers something you said in your conversation, or your favorite ice cream or your favorite character on TV, then honey, he is for keeps. He is genuinely into you and is here to stay.
3. He makes you laugh
Keep him if he gets your sense of humor and makes it his life’s mission to make you laugh. Who doesn’t like giggling all day, goofing around like kids, and smiling from ear to ear? Laughter is the best medicine, remember? Plus, laughter looks good on you. Do not say goodbye to him if he makes you laugh.
4. He inspires you
If he brings out the best in you and inspires you to be the best version of yourself, then imagine what you can achieve with him by your side. Be with someone who pushes you-in your values, in your career, in your education and basically in every aspect of your life. A man who discourages you to do things every chance he gets can clip your wings, instead of letting you fly. That’s a terrible way to live. Inspiration fuels us, it gives us a reason to keep going when times get hard. We need it. If he inspires you, then you need him.
5. He believes in you
I believe in YOU. Words that everyone always wants to hear. With these four words, we are unstoppable. We all want someone to believe in us, have faith in us. If someone believes in you, you automatically get confidence in whatever you do. Imagine having a man who has faith in you; there is no telling how far you can go in achieving your goals and dreams. If he believes in that crazy dream of yours, believe me, you will find yourself going for it and even achieving it.