Breakups happen, people get fired, cherished ones are lost, and everything goes to hell for no apparent reason. At these times, people finally remember that God exists and their first instinct is to blame Him for all their troubles.

"Why me?" we ask.

We think God has abandoned us, and we feel sad for ourselves, not knowing that God is preparing us for something better.

But understand that God will never take away something from your life without replacing it with something better.

The only reason He lets you go through hardships is to strengthen you, not to destroy you.

Sometimes You Fall Apart So You Can Reconstruct Yourself

Sometimes you need to start afresh, and that means resetting some things in your life and doing away with others.

So, you need to see every tear that falls from your eyes as a reminder that you are stronger than the challenge you are facing.

God does not allow good people to undergo suffering just for the sake of it.

Also know that bad things don't happen to people because they deserve it, but usually because they have a lesson to learn.

Your Life May Be Perfect And Still Fall Apart

But that doesn't mean God has abandoned you. He works in mysterious ways.

God has everything figured out, and he sees everything you are going through.

Believe it or not, there is a reward for every tear and heartache you are going through. These are all growing pains, and they help you reach a stage God wants you to attain.

Also, Stop Believing In Perfection

There are no perfect relationships or lives, and even what you believe is perfect falls short of what God wants for you.

He can see everything, and He knows what's good for you, and what's not.

God sees that you are in pain, and He has a plan to make everything right. So, keep the hope alive, and don't give up on your dreams.

He listens to your prayers and will answer them when the time is right. Just have faith in Him and His timing.

God Wants What's Best For You

Even when you feel miserable and abandoned, He is right there beside you to help you out.

God is holding your hand and showing you the way at your most difficult time, and He knows you can take it. Every bad thing you are going through will pass.

You will cry everything out, and He will be there to take you to the next level.

God does not let you suffer because He wants to punish you, but because that's part of His perfect plan for you.

You Are Right Where God Wants You To Be

Every tear you have shed, the hardships, and the suffering will all make sense in the end.

So, as you are sitting there feeling sorry for yourself and wondering what you are being punished for, know that God is watching out for you every step of the way.

There is a divine plan for you, and everything you are going through will shape you into the man or woman you dream of becoming.

Everything Happens For A Reason, And At A Time God Has Appointed

You cannot have the good without the bad. The tough days prepare you for the better days to follow.

To receive the good things, let go of the bad.

The rainbow does not appear without the rain.

To be strong, exact yourself.

So, God has not forsaken you, He is preparing you for what's coming, and it's all part of His divine plan for you.

You just need to hold on and trust Him. And if you lose something you thought was good for you, understand that it's because He has something better prepared for you.