Throughout my adult life, I have always been the only single girl among my peers. I frequently found myself in the role of the third wheel, attending weddings without a plus-one, and consistently making time for girls' night out. Whenever I desired, I would embark on solo trips to far-flung destinations. However, everything changed when I met the man of my dreams and decided to move in with him just two days later. Although I have always adhered to the principle of "when you know, you know," I never anticipated this outcome.
1. We Got A Crash Course On Each Oher By Moving In Together So Quickly
Upon meeting the man who I now refer to as my boyfriend, I sensed an intense and authentic connection between us. In the short span of a week of living together, it seemed as though I had gained an in-depth understanding of who he was as a person. I discovered that he struggles to keep his eyes open long enough to read two pages of a book in bed and that he will go to great lengths to fix any problems I encounter, be it losing my phone, experiencing car trouble, or coming down with an illness. Within a mere seven days, I gained profound insight into his character and was enamored by what I learned.
2. We Skipped All The BS
During the initial weeks of dating someone you're genuinely interested in, it's common to act reserved while still attempting to impress them. However, when my partner and I began living together after only two days of dating, we skipped over all of that. It may seem unromantic, but we didn't have to deal with any awkwardness or games. We had to be entirely ourselves from the very start, with no other alternative.
3. We Saved A Ton Of Money
Moving in together wasn't solely a financial decision; it was an added benefit. Aside from splitting rent, we saved money by bonding through cooking, beach walks, card games, and long conversations. Although we did plan occasional dates, most of the time, we preferred to stay in and enjoy each other's company.
4. We Became Better Versions Of Ourselves
Within the initial two days of meeting my boyfriend, we discovered that we're both highly competitive individuals. On day one, a friendly rivalry was formed, and it has continued since then. If he runs three miles, I push myself to run four. While there is an element of enjoyment involved, it also serves as a motivator for us to improve ourselves. Knowing that my competition is out there training keeps me from missing a gym session! As soon as we moved in together, we began encouraging each other to achieve our goals and it has been an excellent experience.
5. We Nipped Communication Issues In The Bud
Living under the same roof with a roommate, family member, or partner requires effective communication. Matters such as taking out the trash and paying bills need to be discussed and coordinated. Upon moving in with my partner, we had a conversation about our preferred methods of communication and what issues were of significance to each of us. While we maintained our individuality, we were also considerate of each other, fostering a sense of mutual respect and trust.
6. We Merged Our Friend Groups
When my partner and I met, we did not share a common social circle. However, that quickly changed once we started living together just two days later. Initially, it was unusual for us to have guests over, but it turned out to be an excellent opportunity for us to socialize and form connections with others. Our circle of friends gradually expanded, and we soon found ourselves hosting dinners for everyone, which was a fun and memorable experience for us all.
7. We Passed Our Good Habits Along To Each Other
Prior to moving in with my new boyfriend, we had distinct differences in our lifestyles. While I was a vegetarian and enjoyed reading before bed, he practiced meditation and went for a morning run. However, rather than simply discussing these aspects of our lives over dinner, we embraced them and shared our passions. I began meditating with him every morning, while he eventually adopted a vegetarian diet due to my influence. Our routines became intertwined, drawing us closer together and creating a sense of unity.
8. Time Was On Our Side
We had different lifestyles before moving in together - I was a vegetarian who loved reading, while he meditated and went for morning runs. But we didn't just talk about our differences, we embraced and shared them. I started meditating with him, and he became a vegetarian because of me. Our routines intertwined, bringing us closer and creating unity.
9. We Embraced Spontaneous Moments
When my boyfriend of just two days moved in with me, we were both so excited to be together that we made the most of every moment. If we felt like going on a hike, we'd put on our boots and go without having to coordinate or plan anything beforehand. We were swept up in the energy of our new relationship and didn't want to waste a single second.
10. We Grew Together
Our unconventional and fast-moving relationship may seem unromantic to some, but for me, it was the best decision I've ever made. Our bond is stronger because we embraced the moment and didn't hold back.
