I understand the frustration of women who find themselves in a situation where a guy they like can't decide between them and someone else. Some might be tempted to fight each other to win him over, but that's not my style. If a guy can't make up his mind, I'd rather move on to someone who's sure he wants to be with me.
1. If He Really Likes Me, I'll Know
A guy who enjoys the animosity between two women is only using them to feed his ego. He's not really interested in either of them, or he would have made a move by now. He's simply reveling in the attention and finds it amusing when women turn against each other instead of holding him accountable.
2. Guys In A Similar Case Show Each Other Solidarity
Men have their own "code of honor" when it comes to a woman they both desire, but eventually, they realize that their time is being wasted. Why can't we as women do the same and not engage in petty battles with each other?
3. I Know My Worth, And I Value Myself Too Much To Put Up With This Crap
I deserve a guy who knows what he wants, and if he can't make a decision, I'm not going to compete with another woman for his affection. If he can't choose, then it's his loss, not mine.
4. A Guy Is A Human Being, Not A Prize To Be Won
I refuse to take the blame for a guy not choosing me over another woman. Winning over a man shouldn't be the goal of any woman today, and I wouldn't want to date a guy who sees himself as a prize.
5. It's Not My Job To Fight Her — It's His Job To Fight For Me
It's natural for an attractive person to attract attention from the opposite sex. I'm not going to fight every woman who comes his way. If he wants me, he'll let other women know he's taken. If he doesn't, then he's not as into it as he should be.
6. Blaming Another Woman For His Failures Isn't Right
He may be avoiding commitment or still emotionally attached to his ex, but it's not anyone's fault except his own. Whether he's struggling to choose between pursuing me or another woman, I won't take the blame.
7. I Refuse To Make Her A Problem In My Life
I have my own issues, and I won't willingly let her become one more problem in my life. I cannot say that she's the reason behind my unhappiness.
8. I Have More Important Things To Fight For
My focus is on my career, loved ones, and survival in this chaotic world. Refusing to compete with another woman for a man who may not even become my partner isn't a sign of weakness, but a sign of having clear priorities. In life, we pick our battles, and mine are important things that matter to me.
9. If She Wants Him She Can Have Him
Why bother? Is he really worth that much hassle? No man is worth that kind of stress, and even if he ultimately chooses me, I'll always wonder if she's on his mind. It's better to leave with my self-respect intact than to make a fool of myself.
10. My Sanity And Serenity Are Much More Important
I won't go down the same chaotic road for another guy. Some people enjoy drama, but my sanity is too valuable. My aim in life is to remain calm, happy, and positive, not angry, sad, and frustrated. I won't compromise that to compete with another woman for a man who isn't worth it.