Have you ever received a good morning message from someone you were fond of?
There is an additional feeling of significance attached to it. Perhaps it's because you realize that it implies that the person is thinking of you as the first thought of their day.
Alternatively, it could be because hearing from someone who holds significance in your life right at the beginning of your day allows you to commence your day on a positive note.
Irrespective of the reasoning behind the appeal of good morning texts, it is generally acknowledged that they have the ability to uplift our mood and make leaving our beds a little easier. So, why not take the initiative and send a good morning text to your partner, allowing them to experience the same positive emotions?
If you are uncertain about what to text him, don't worry - we can assist you. We will guide you through the process of sending a guy a good morning text.
THE DO'S AND DON'TS OF THE PERFECT GOOD MORNING TEXT
All texts are not created equal. Therefore, we will begin by demonstrating what actions to take and what to avoid.
With that said, the following are our guidelines:
Don't: Send him a text that only says "good morning"
Nothing is as unimpressive and tedious as a text message that contains only one word. Although "good morning" comprises two words, it appears like a one-word text message when sent alone without any accompanying message.
Sending such a dull message may make the recipient feel bored and uninterested, causing them to fall back asleep.
It is acceptable to initiate your text message with a "good morning," but it's preferable to add something else to it. Even something as simple as including an emoji at the end can add more character to your message and make it less uninteresting.
Do: Express your own personality
Another way to avoid sending a monotonous good morning text is to incorporate your personality into it. Whether you are in a humorous, flirtatious, or cheerful mood, infuse that vibe into your message.
By doing so, you can make your text stand out from the others he may have received that morning. From the outset, you establish a distinctive presence in his mind.
Don't: Send him multiple texts in a row
It's important not to panic or overreact when he doesn't respond, no matter how much you may be fond of him.
Despite your desire for his undivided attention, it is not possible for him to concentrate on you all the time. Bombarding him with multiple texts in a row or repeatedly sending messages will not encourage him to focus on you in a positive manner.
In fact, you may come across as anxious and excessively needy by repeatedly sending messages. To prevent making this mood-dampening blunder, restrict yourself to sending just one or two messages at a time.
If he doesn't reply at all, you might be wondering what to do next. In that case, you can refer to our guide on what to text when a guy doesn't reply.
Do: Flirt with him and make it personal
If you only send him generic texts, how can he be expected to remember you at all? You will simply blend into the background that way.
In the dating world, nothing can quash the possibility of a relationship like being forgettable. You deserve more than being easily overlooked, and we assure you of that.
Infuse your text messages with playfulness or flirtatiousness. Compliment him, send him a wink, share cute pictures, or anything else that works for you.
However, ensure that the content of your good morning text is centered around him. Personalize it with things you know he'll appreciate, and he'll look forward to receiving more messages from you in the future.
Don't: Write him a novel
Gone are the times when you could write pages and pages in a love letter to your man. Nowadays, especially in a good morning text, doing so will leave him feeling overwhelmed.
Consider it this way: when you wake up in the morning, what is the first thing you want to do? You most likely didn't say, "read a novel."
Typically, in the morning, you are tired and maybe even a little irritable. You'll want things to go as smoothly and quickly as possible.
It's likely the same for him. Therefore, keep your good morning text short and sweet.
Our personal recommendation is to avoid writing a good morning text that's more than one or two lines. That way, he won't have to spend time scrolling through a long text on his phone first thing in the morning.
HOW TO TEXT A GUY GOOD MORNING
Put a smile on his face with something funny
Having a good sense of humor is always a positive trait. People tend to appreciate those who can make them laugh.
Having a good sense of humor is always a plus, as everyone appreciates someone who can make them laugh. In the morning, when we've just rolled out of bed, is the perfect time to have a good chuckle. Starting the day with a smile on your face is a great way to set a positive tone for the rest of it.
A good laugh is always welcome, and if there's one time we need it the most, it's in the morning, right after getting out of bed. It's an excellent way to start the day on the right foot and stay in a good mood for the rest of it. You can send him a meme or video about getting up in the morning, or crack a joke about your day. Whatever you choose, keep it light and playful.
Starting his day off with a smile is something he'll appreciate, and it's a great way to brighten his morning.
Examples
Share a meme or video with him that you believe would appeal to his interests.
A pleasant morning to you! May your coffee pack a punch and may the odds be in your favor.
Allow me to offer some morning advice: Toast is much more enjoyable when it's not burnt to a crisp.
I have a hunch that you wake up without a bird's nest for hair in the morning.
I attempted to come up with something humorous to share with you, but I'll have to wait until I've had my coffee to do so.
One way to inject humor into a conversation is by using a pickup line. Try searching for one of the most cringeworthy pickup lines you can find online and share it with him.
Send something cute and make his heart melt
Perhaps you're in the mood for some sentimental sweetness rather than humor in the morning. That's just as wonderful, because you can still brighten up his day with a heartfelt gesture that puts a smile on his face.
Although it may be too early in the day for a profoundly romantic gesture, sending a brief and charming message can uplift his spirits before he even begins his day. You could mention a past date, express your anticipation for your next meeting, or share something you adore about him.
Regardless of the approach you take, you're certain to evoke a warm and fuzzy feeling in him.
Examples
Hello there! I was thinking about you and realized I haven't seen your handsome face in a while. Could you please send me a picture? Good morning!
Starting my day in your arms would make it so much better. That's how much I miss you.
Good morning, my love. Just wanted to remind you that I love you so much!
I was just looking at my breakfast and I couldn't help but think that your lips would be a much tastier choice.
Good morning! Just wanted to let you know that I'm sending my love your way.
Get him excited for the day with some playfulness
Playfully teasing your partner is a fun way to get them out of bed. It will not only put a smile on your face, but also on their face when they read your message.
Sending something adorable to your partner is great, but if you're aiming for a flirtatious tone, it's better to focus on teasing them a bit.
You could consider it a "light" version of romance. It still conveys your interest, but without getting overly emotional.
The secret to this approach is to maintain a lighthearted tone in your messages.
Examples
Greetings! I trust that you had a restful night filled with delightful dreams, just like yourself. ๐
I yearn for the opportunity to wake up to the sight of your handsome face.
While I can't promise to have breakfast prepared for you if you were here, I can definitely assure you that I would wake you up with the most fantastic cuddles you've ever experienced.
May I presume that you would have breakfast ready for me if we were together? ๐
I'm willing to wager that I can prepare myself faster than you in the morning. Perhaps we could put it to the test by having a sleepover sometime.
Crafting a fresh and flirtatious line can be challenging, especially when you're fatigued and in a rush, such as in the morning.
In case you find yourself running low on ideas, we recommend utilizing your resources, such as the Text Chemistry course. It offers a plethora of tips and tricks to incorporate into your messages, which can capture his attention right from the beginning of his day, irrespective of whether he's a morning person or not.
Show, don't tell
Many of us enjoy visual stimulation, and it's likely that your significant other is no exception. By sending him a photo of yourself first thing in the morning, you'll ensure that he starts his day with thoughts of you.
The great thing about selfies is their flexibility. You have the ability to alter the lighting, pose, makeup, and outfit to create any desired mood.
If you're yearning to see his face, don't hesitate to request the same from him. It's a top-notch choice, particularly for those in long-distance relationships, as it provides an opportunity for your partner to see you.
Examples
If you're feeling particularly daring and would like to incorporate some humor, consider sending your partner a selfie of your disheveled morning hair.
Share a photo of your smile with him.
Feeling a bit mischievous? Share a photo of yourself after taking a shower with him.
Use a little spice to pique his interest
Although we generally advise against adding too much spice if your relationship is still in its early stages, there's no harm in occasionally incorporating a little bit. If you're already in a committed relationship, surprising your partner with something sexy out of the blue can reignite the passion or add some excitement.
Even if you're not in a committed relationship, you can still keep him interested by occasionally sending something spicy. It's a great way to remind him that you're an attractive woman and that you're a catch.
We recommend not overdoing it with the sexy messages because if that's all you send, he may get the impression that you're only interested in the physical aspect of the relationship. However, if that is truly your intention, then go ahead and get as explicit as you desire.
Examples
Good morning! I think I'll need to take a shower after the risquรฉ dreams I had about you last night...
I have a feeling your messy morning hair would look quite alluring...would you like to show me?
It wouldn't be so difficult to get out of bed if I knew you were there...preferably without any clothes on.
I'm aware of some of the most effective ways to wake you up...
Perhaps it's fortunate that you're not here with me because I don't think we would have gotten much sleep last night if you were here. ๐
KEEP HIM INTERESTED ALL DAY (AND ALL NIGHT!) LONG
Sending a good morning text is crucial, as it may be one of the first things he reads. Thus, it is important to ensure that the message you send is as close to perfect as possible.
If your goal is to elicit a specific emotional response from him, it's essential to consider what you want him to feel. The tactics you employ will differ significantly based on whether you want him to feel fondness, amusement, or arousal.
When you're feeling fatigued and hurried in the morning, this can be quite challenging to accomplish. You may choose to prepare your good morning text in advance the night before.