I’m about to reveal to you what I did, because I have been married to the man of my dreams for over a decade now. And I have God to thank for my good fortune.

I promise you, this is very easy, and anyone can do it.

As You Might Have Heard Countless Times, Good Men Are Rare These Days.

And based on all the wrong men you will meet in your life, you will have a hard time disputing this “fact.”

But there is something you need to know. To find a good thing, you have to search in the right places. And I don’t mean church, as you will soon find out.

Before your search for a good man starts, relax and take it breathe easy. There is one thing I always say–as long as you are alive, you have time and there is a chance.

So, here are 6 steps to follow as you pray to God to give you a good husband.

1. Write It Down

You know the man you want. Write down a list of the qualities you seek. You want humor? Put it down. Be specific to God about the man to put in your life.

When you finally go before God and say, “Dear God, help me find a good husband who has/will…” you will have details regarding the man you seek. It could be a loving man, a Godly man, a devoted man, a good-looking man. It’s all up to you.

2. Pray Over The Letter

Now that you have written the letter with your request. Fold it up and pray over it. Pray with faith and God will hear you.

3. Bury The Letter

Before you question the spiritual significance of this unusual gesture, let me tell you something about myself. When I wrote the letter and prayed over it, I felt a need to bury it in the sand. I don’t know why but it felt right.

Initially, I thought of tossing the letter away, but somehow that felt like I was discarding my prayer request. I had the same feeling about burning it into ashes.

Burying the letter made me feel that my prayer was precious somehow, like a treasure. It gave me the conviction that I would get an answer. But you are welcome to do whatever feels right, God knows we are different.

4. Ask Friends To Help You Pray For A Good Husband

People often pray for each other, and it works. It’s even biblical. You don’t have to ask a married person to do it. You can even ask your minister, but be sure to frame it in a way that your prayer will seem like a serious request, not a joke. Don’t just say, “pray I get a good man.” Try to explain the man you want.

5. Don’t Stop Praying

You should pray every day until your prayer is answered. Pray for other things, but always remind your God that you need a good husband. While at it, ask Him to make you a good wife. Because God will not put a good man into the hands of the wrong woman. God is righteous, He is fair.

6. Don’t Think The First Man You Meet Will Be The Answer To Your Prayer

Even the devil knows you need a good man, and he can try to bring you bad men disguised as good men to distract you. Don’t think a man you found in church is the answer to your prayer.. You might meet him in the most unexpected of ways. You might find out that a longtime friend of yours you never considered is that man. That’s actually what happened with me.

The most important thing is that you have faith as you pray. Trust God completely and don’t set deadlines. It might take longer than you expected. But understand that good things take time.