Sometimes we sabotage ourselves by falling in love with unattainable people or mistake platonic intimacy for something else.
Also, good friends will always be there for you through thick and thin. Use them to work through your heartbreak, acknowledging, and learning from it.
There’s no rush
It’s completely normal to feel like you’re missing out on something. The best way to overcome heartache is to first accept your own feelings in these strange times. Accept yourself, and mean it.
Furthermore, you are hurting because it’s real. After all, you are a human being that is capable of feeling great things. You don’t need to convert your angst into something productive or neat immediately.
Sometimes we don’t need solutions for a healthy relationship. We just need to sit with it.
You may wonder where all your love goes to if they don’t want it.
Just keep it for yourself, and grow, my friends. Keep it all.