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How To Be Hot: The Ultimate Guide To Attractiveness

It is natural to want to be seen as attractive to potential romantic partners, but looking like a supermodel or being a certain size is not necessary. Here's how to appear attractive effortlessly. Hint: It has more to do with attitude than physical appearance.

1. Value What's In Your Head And Heart More Than What You Look Like

Realizing that being attractive is largely dependent on your personality is the easiest way to be seen as attractive. Having a great personality, such as being intelligent, kind, respectful, and having a good sense of humor, is more important than meeting society's standard of physical perfection.

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2. Set Goals And Go After Them

Having ambition is attractive, without a doubt. It doesn't matter if your ambition is to learn a new language, run a race, or pursue a higher degree, pursuing your goals relentlessly and not giving up until you achieve them will make people take notice.

3. Be Unapologetically Yourself

Being true to yourself is the key to being attractive. No one else has the same combination of qualities as you, so embrace your uniqueness. Don't apologize for being too much or too little of something, acknowledge your own greatness and others will recognize it too.

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4. Always See The Bright Side

Having a positive perspective is attractive, it's all about how you see things. Even though it's not possible to be happy all the time, having the ability to see the good in every situation and not let adversity defeat you is attractive. Recognize that every experience is a learning opportunity and approach them with a positive attitude.

5. Learn To Feel Good In Your Own Skin

It's important to remember that most people don't look like the airbrushed photos seen on social media and magazines, and that's okay. The most attractive thing about a person is the confidence and self-love they have, regardless of their appearance. Embracing and loving oneself wholeheartedly is truly attractive.

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6. Dress To Impress

Wearing the right outfit can boost your self-confidence. Pick clothing that makes you feel good, it doesn't have to be the most extravagant or revealing, but it should emphasize your best features and give you the confidence that other people will notice when you enter a room.

7. Speak Your Mind

Being bold can make you stand out. Speak with confidence and don't be afraid to express yourself. Avoid being rude, vulgar, or bringing up controversial topics in inappropriate situations. However, when appropriate, speaking directly and making an impactful statement can start a meaningful conversation and grab someone's attention. People will value your honesty and appreciate the confidence it takes to be direct.

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8. Know Your Assets

Knowing your strengths and worth is essential. Be aware of the parts of your body that you feel comfortable showing off and choose an outfit that highlights your best assets. Don't be afraid to flaunt what you've got, but also remember that your other strengths like intelligence and loyalty to friends are just as important. Being aware of your strengths and worth will not only make you appear more confident but also remind others of your value.

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9. Be Aware Of What You Want

Being decisive is a desirable trait, whether it's in ordering a drink or bringing up a topic of conversation. It's important to share your career goals and personal ambitions, and when it comes to a romantic situation, don't hesitate to let the person you're interested in know what you want. Being clear about what you want comes across as confident and can prevent disappointment.

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10. Don't Let Anyone Talk You Down

There will always be people who may not be interested or may feel threatened by you, but it's important not to let their jealousy or negative comments shake your confidence. It is more attractive to remain composed and not let the individual's petty behavior affect you. Don't stoop to their level and be the bigger person.

11. Have The Perfect Comebacks

Being sassy can be attractive, as long as it's not rude or vulgar. Being able to come up with a clever comeback in response to an offhanded comment is a way to showcase your confidence while putting someone in their place. Plan ahead by thinking of appropriate responses to potential negative comments, then deliver your comeback with confidence and move on.

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12. Don't Give Him All Of Your Attention

It's important not to give all your attention to one person, even if you are interested in them. Mingle and talk to different people. This shows that you are outgoing and a sought-after person, which will grab the attention of the person you're interested in.

13. Really Work The Room

It's not just about not focusing on one person, but it's also important to engage with everyone in the room. Make sure to give everyone a bit of time and attention. This will ensure that you have caught the attention of everyone. However, it's important to not just say "hi" and move on, but also to have genuine conversations and show a genuine interest in what others have to say. This way people won't think you're just looking for attention and will be more likely to be interested in you.

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14. Have A Couple Of Stories On-Hand

When trying to engage with different people and keep their attention, it can be hard to constantly think of new topics to talk about. Having a few well-crafted stories that you can share ahead of time can help. Choose stories that are funny or relatable, and that have happened to you recently. Make sure they are appropriate for the setting and that they will be well received by your audience.

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15. Maintain Eye Contact

Maintaining strong eye contact is very attractive. It demonstrates confidence and boldness, and can be an instant turn-on for someone who is already interested in you. But it's important to make eye contact with everyone you interact with, not just people you're attracted to. It shows respect and interest in the conversation, both of which are attractive qualities.

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