Admit it, there are few things more amazing than having your boyfriend speak of you in glowing terms because you know how to be a good girlfriend. And if you want your relationship to last, then in one way or another, you have to make an effort to be a good partner.

And it’s easy being the girlfriend he would never want to lose and earn yourself the reputation of being the best girl he ever had.

Is It Possible To Be A Perfect Girlfriend?

To him, you can be. But there is no single way to become a good girlfriend.

But there are a few changes you can make in your life to become the girlfriend he has always wanted in his life. Here are a few pointers.

1. Don’t Make Him Jealous

Being the perfect girlfriend includes being the girl he can trust. Even if you are the most beautiful lady ever, if you give your attention to any guy that comes along, you can never hope to earn the perfect girlfriend title.

Unless the guy knows you are committed only to him, he will never really trust you. That will make you less than ideal as a girlfriend.

2. To Be A Perfect Girlfriend, You Have To Be A Good Listener

When he comes home exhausted after a bad day, don’t act bored when he wants to vent about it. Just let him be.

You don’t have to enjoy the rants, but you can at least try to be understanding and hear him out. He will feel that you were the answer to his troubles and that will help you build a stronger relationship.

The key to any good relationship is communication. And it’s not always about voicing opinions and sharing ideas, but also being a good listener.

3. Have A Nice Personality

People are attracted to positivity. Negativity pushes people away, regardless of how much they have to offer.

So, to become a good girlfriend, try to have a more positive outlook on life. That will make your company more comforting for him, and he will feel obliged to make you happy and do other things to please you.

4. Be A Vixen In Bed, And You Will Be The Perfect Girlfriend

You don’t have to be a porn star to impress the guy. However, there are a few ways you can become the best girlfriend ever based on your skills between the sheets.

Even without doing anything crazy, indulging some of his favorite fantasies from time to time can really make you stand out.

In this scenario, just as in many other aspects of the relationship, communication is key. You can have him tell you what he likes in bed.

And don’t worry, chances are that he will also want to hear a few things about what you like in bed. So, it will be a win-win for everyone.

5. Make Time For Him

A man who feels he has a place in your life will be more intrigued with you and much happier to have you in his life. You should let him be part of your interests, let him spend time with your friends, and make time to be with him.

If you don’t do such things, he might start thinking you are embarrassed by his presence. That will obviously not make you someone he is proud of either.

Making time for him will make him feel appreciated and assured that he has the right girl in his life.

6. Like His Friends

Some girls do nothing but alienate their men from their friends. Others will even make a man leave some of his friends to please her.

What they forget is that these guys were in his life long before they were in the picture.

Destroying those friendships ultimately creates resentment that can strain the relationship. Or at the very least, deny you a chance to become the perfect girlfriend.

7. Don’t Be Passive Aggressive

Women are notorious for being passive-aggressive in their behavior towards the men in their lives. Many girls fail to ask for what they want, then act resentfully.

And so, the man is left wondering what’s wrong because he has no idea what she wants.

Don’t be that woman. If you want something from him, say it.

Men appreciate women who are direct and know what they want. If you are always frustrated at him for reasons he does not understand, he will get tired of the relationship and stop trying.

Accept that men don’t get hints, as well as ladies, wish they did. If you are direct with him, you will have what you want much more easily.

Any guy who cares about you will try to fix whatever is bothering you, but only if he knows what it is.

8. To Be The Perfect Girlfriend, You Have To Be Yourself

You don’t have to create a fake persona to win your boyfriend’s love and devotion. Trust me, he met a lot of girls before he met you, and it was you he chose to pursue and make a girlfriend.

If you can be yourself around him, chances are that he will trust you more and consider you a better partner for him.

9. Learn To Trust Him

If you drill him every time he goes out, he will get the feeling you have no trust in him. It will also make you look possessive.

To be the perfect girlfriend, you have learned to trust him. Once he feels the trust between you has been broken, then a relationship with you will seem like a burden.

10. Show An Interest In His Interests

You don’t have to become his favorite team’s superfan. But once in a while, you can join him and his buddies as he watches his favorite team play.

Additionally, you can show your support by not standing in his way when he wants to enjoy his hobbies. That will show him you care about many aspects of his life.

11. Show Appreciation

Men do plenty to keep relationships going, and they often get no appreciation for their efforts.

While men appreciate the things you do for them, expressing this by doing stuff for them does not really strike a chord with most of them.

All you have to do is tell them how much you appreciate their effort. If he puts a lot of effort into loving and caring for you, at least show your appreciation.

12. Don’t Smother Him, And He’ll Think You Are The Perfect Girlfriend

Some girls can get really clingy, which is a major turn off for a guy because all he will be thinking about is how to get a little freedom in his life.

You can refrain from calling him all the time, especially if you feel it’s too much for him to handle.

Constant demands for attention will wear on him, even if he has the passion to put up with it.

Giving him space shows you trust him, and that’s one of the most important things a man could have in a girlfriend.

13. Have A Life Outside The Relationship

Some girls simply disappear off the face of the earth once they get a boyfriend, at least according to their friends. You should not take a similar path.

You should still try to maintain these friendships, both for your sake and for the sake of the man in your life.

That way, the man will not feel a lot of pressure to ensure every aspect of your life is catered for. Besides, you still need friends even after meeting the love of your life.

14. Learn To Choose Your Battles

They say one trick to a happy life is not sweating the small stuff. Apparently, the principle also applies when trying to be a better girlfriend.

Couples fight, and that’s normal and even healthy. But you cannot fight over everything.

Learn to let some things go and focus only on what might threaten the future of the relationship if undressed.

15. Give Him Great Food, And He’ll Consider You A Perfect Girlfriend

There is a reason they say the way to a man’s heart is his stomach.

While you are not called upon to put aside years of women empowerment by making the kitchen your whole life, you can try and make him a dish he likes once in a while.

It doesn’t even have to be something elaborate. A sandwich or some pancakes can be all it takes.  

16. Be Caring

Girls never seem to get that guys love romantic gestures as much as they do. And the best thing is that it does not take as much effort to impress a guy.

Just showing him you care with a small surprise can really make you special to him.

For instance, you can buy him dinner for once, or break some other common gender stereotypes. You can also try to initiate sex or do something he would never expect you to do.

17. A Perfect Girlfriend Learns To Be Happy

Happiness does not just make life easier for your boyfriend, but for you as well. Learn to smile more often. 

Chances are that it’s one of the most attractive qualities he found in you.

When you are happy, the man will feel that he is doing something right and that will make him more proud to have you in his life.

18. Be His Friend

There is a reason you are called “girlfriend”. You are not just his girl, but also be his friend.

Any girl can give him many things you offer as a girl, but few can truly be his friend. The connection you share has to go beyond sexual intimacy.

So, learn to be his companion, supporting him in his journey of life.

19. Love Yourself

When you love yourself, you are more receptive to love and more likely to give your love to others. That means when he does something loving for you, you will be more receptive.

That will make you seem more appreciative of the relationship you share.

Signs that you love yourself include accepting that you are worthy of love and being happy when he shows you love.

20. Learn To Make Your Requests To Him Irresistible

So you don’t like some of his habits? That’s bound to happen.

But don’t nag him every time he leaves his dirty socks on the floor.

Instead of raising your voice or losing your temper, you can package your message seductively. That would create a lasting impression, and it would make him change his ways for good.

And there you have it. If you have been wondering how to be a good girlfriend, then this is how you do it. 

As you can see, it does not take much effort to be a perfect girlfriend. And in most cases, what makes you happy as a person is what makes you a better girlfriend.