Published in Apr 2020 / Updated in Mar 2021
How do people treat you? There are people that will treat you with respect and dignity because they like you.
Have you noticed that some people seem irresistible, you are drawn to them and you instantly like them? What do these people have that make them so likable?
We have compiled a list of 10 things that make people likable. If you start to change and start to do these things, the way people treat you will change positively.
Treat Others Like You Want To Be Treated
This is a golden rule, treat people like you would like to be treated. If you treat people fairly and with respect, they will do the same for you. Decide today how you would like to be treated and start treating other people in that same manner.
Have integrity. You should know what matters and not allow anyone to change the way that you think. Hold your virtues close and live by them.
People that have compassion for other people are more likable, more irresistible. To be compassionate, you have to be empathetic and try to see the other person’s situation and perspective before you act.
People like to be around positive people, friendly people. By showing your smile, you will attract positive people to your side.
Live life to the fullest, love life. Take every chance to be alive and focus on the good things, the things that make you happy.
Start today by cherishing the time that you have and that you can spend with your friends and family. Cherish togetherness by focusing on the times that you are with your people, don’t spend that time on your phone.
Value Hard Work
Highly likable people work hard and they value hard work. They do not sit back and wait for life to give them a handout. They will work for what they want.
Listen, start by listening truly to the people in your life. Open yourself up to understand what the people around you are experiencing and how you can help them in their journey.
Manners don’t cost you anything. Saying please and thank you should come naturally to you.
Be genuine because nobody likes someone fake. By being honest with people around you; will provide them with a sense of trust and security.
The way that people treat you will depend on yourself and how you treat others. By following the above-mentioned ten suggestions, you will change the way that you treat people and the people around you will start to treat you differently. You will become a likable person.