Here's Why You Should Wait To Sleep With Him, No Matter How Badly You Want Him


In the Tinder generation, hooking up is easy but finding a meaningful relationship is hard. While sex is great, it's important to hold off until you're sure about the guy.

1. He Might Get The Wrong Idea

Sleeping with a guy too soon can still lead to misunderstandings and miscommunication. Some guys might assume you're only interested in something casual, or they might view you differently. If you're not comfortable discussing these things, it may be best to hold off on sleeping with him.


2. Sex Is Better With Someone You're Comfortable With

Despite the intense sexual chemistry after a couple of dates, the reality is that you don't know each other that well yet. While the first time having sex with someone new might not always be mind-blowing, being comfortable with each other can improve the chances of it being a positive experience.

3. The Build Up Could Lead To An Amazing Payoff

Delaying gratification and building anticipation can intensify the sexual experience when you eventually do sleep together. Although there's always the possibility of disappointment, it's a risk worth taking.


4. Focus Could Shift To The Physical Before You Ever Get To Know Each Other

When you have great sex with someone, it's easy to become fixated on the next time you'll be intimate. This can lead to skipping dates and prioritizing sex, which can hinder the progress of your relationship in other areas.

5. Sex Can Cause Embarrassing Moments

Being with someone you're comfortable with during sex makes things like them seeing your entire body, unexpected bodily functions, or realizing you forgot to shave your legs seem trivial. However, if you're with a guy you just met a few days ago, these things can be pretty embarrassing.


6. What's The Rush?

Take the time to really get to know the guy before jumping into bed with him. If the connection is strong, there will be plenty of opportunities to have sex. If not, you can still enjoy a casual encounter without worrying about the future. It's important to be aware of what you're getting into before taking the plunge.

7. If He's Willing To Take It Slow, He's Interested In More Than Sex.

Delaying sex is a useful way to gauge his intentions. If he appears uncomfortable with taking it slow, it may be because he knows he can easily find a girl willing to have sex with him immediately on Tinder and doesn't want to wait for you.


8. You'll Reduce The Stress Of Worrying You'll Never Hear From Him Again Afterwards

Delaying sex until you trust him and know he's genuinely interested in you will prevent you from waking up with regrets or worrying if he only wanted sex. This way, you'll feel more confident that he's interested in you for more than just physical attraction, and you can both move forward with a stronger connection.