Whatever will be will be. That's a universal truth, and I carry it with me wherever I go.

I Have To Try, But I Also Know Some Things Are Beyond My Control

The mindless struggle to make things work is a waste of time and effort. In the end, what is mine will find its way to me because God is in charge.

If He wants me to have anything, I'll have it because He will put it in my path. It could be a certain achievement or a special someone. God alone can make it happen.

I was once involved with a certain guy. He knew how to push my buttons, but for some strange reason, I could never stay mad at him. I could never back up and choose a different path.

The good times we shared were really good, and I could not imagine having it better. He knew just the right things to say. Yes, he was a bona fide Casanova.

I Am Not Proud To Admit That He Had Me Wrapped Around His Little Finger

But deep down - I know you know the place – I felt something was off about him. My emotions were all in, but my heart was still mulling things over.

When together, everything was perfect, and I say that with the utmost sincerity.

But once we parted, it was like I woke up from a beautiful dream into a total nightmare.

Communication completely broke down.

He Could Go For Days Without Answering His Texts Or Calls

I spent the time thinking about what went wrong.

To cut a long story short, all the signs were there that this was the wrong guy for me. God was warning me. And finally, I heeded His voice and cut the guy off.

Needless to say, that wasn't easy. Despite ignoring him, I was wondering what was up with him and what he was doing.

Several times I was overwhelmed by a desire to receive a text from him or see him call, even after ignoring his previous attempts to get in touch.

The Pressure Mounted Until I Could Not Take It Anymore

I had had enough.

There was nothing I wanted more than peace.

So, I texted back. The next moment we were planning a meeting. But I still knew he was not right for me.

When we got together, everything was perfect. Just like in the old times.

But This Time, I Was Different

Despite the good times, I knew it was time to let him go for good.

This time around, it was easy. I walked away and that unhealthy relationship was over for me.

It Was Such A Relief To Finally Know I Had Heeded God's Voice

I put my feelings aside and made a sound decision for once.

Here's the thing about me, and I know it's true for most of us: I have a good heart, and I see the best in people.

But that does not mean I should let them walk all over me. I know my worth, and I know God has good plans for me.

So, You Should See Your Worth As God Does. Not As People Do

Don't make compromises and let heartbreakers into your life. Put your hope and trust in God and you will never be disappointed by anybody in this life.

The right person will be sent by God to you, and he is worth waiting for. You just have to be patient.