Ever Wondered If You’re An INFJ? Here’s How To Identify
Sandeep KaurPublished in July 2020 / Updated in December 2020
Introvert, Intuitive, Feeling, and Judging (INFJ) is one of the 16 personality types identified in the Myers Briggs Personality Test. People with an INFJ personality can be quirky, complicated, and sometimes contradictory.
Being the rarest personality type, INFJs account for just one to three percent of the total world population. They are idealistic with high moral standards and a strong focus on the future. INFJs often stay reserved and enjoy thinking about deep topics, contemplating the meaning of their life.
They can read others well and can see behind the mask that others unconsciously wear; ironically though, many struggle to understand themselves. If you have ever felt like this, there are possibilities you are one of them.
Here are some characteristics you will relate to if you are a true INFJ:
#1 YOU FEEL DIFFERENT FROM THE PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE
Even if you had a lot of friends and those concerned about you, you never felt like you truly fit in their circle. You faked being like them so they accept you.
If you ever felt like this, you are an INFJ.
#2 YOU DESIRE TO KNOW PEOPLE EMOTIONALLY
Unlike people who just ask others about their lives casually, you are interested more in what they actually think and feel about a certain topic. If the fake facade people set up for others don’t fool you, you are among the gifted INFJs.
#3 YOU ARE THE UNPREDICTABLE TYPE
INFJs can be both reserved and extrovert at the same time, depending upon the situation, their mood, energy levels, and the people they are with. If you feel like you are among those unpredictable types, you surely are an INFJ.
#4 YOU ARE A BORN COUNSELOR
When someone approaches you with a problem, instead of giving them solutions you prefer to ask questions so they can better understand the situation and contemplate their feelings about it. You prefer giving instances to help them deduce a lesson and inspiration to solve it on their own. For this reason, true INFJs are often called born counselors.
#5 YOU LIKE KEEPING A CLOSE CIRCLE
Though INFJs are introverts, there are certain limits as well. They can’t stay alone for long and need people to spend time with. However, these people are a handful of friends who truly get them and can make deep conversations. If you feel like one among such people, you too are an INFJ.
#6 YOU ARE SENSITIVE
INFJs often cut off from people who hurt them too many times. They do this to protect themselves from getting hurt again. Even though it looks like they have it together on the outside, they are sensitive from the inside especially towards what other people have to say about you.
#7 YOU CAN EMPATHIZE EASILY
If you feel like you know what the other person is going through, and what they need at the moment, you are among the INFJs. You may not always be right, but more perceptive than most. You don’t just give sympathy but want to help others in the best possible way.
#8 YOU CAN SENSE THINGS
You walk into a room and sense a feeling of anxiousness and you get anxious, or you sense a feeling of excitement and you get excited. If you can relate yourself to the statement, you are more of an INFJ type. Also, you tend to gravitate more towards calm people so you do not have to deal with the emotional garbage afterward.
#9 YOU FIND IT HARD TO CONVEY YOUR FEELINGS
You care about the people in your life, but find it hard when it comes to expressing the same. Those people may never really know how much you care for them as you prefer to keep your feelings to yourself. INFJs may find trouble articulating their feelings, even when they feel them intensely.
#10 YOU LIKE TO LEARN NEW THINGS
While others may spend their time going out on a vacation, you prefer utilizing that time to learn new things. Reading informational books, websites, and journals on self-improvement, psychology, and spirituality seem to interest INFJs a lot than reading comics and magazines.
The Final Word
The characteristics described in the article above are things a lot of people can relate to. However, you can always take a personality test to be sure of your correct personality type.