Love is blind, or that is what they say. But when you choose your perfect man, choose the one who will always be by your side, respecting and loving you for who you really are.
Romantic relationships are fantastic, especially at the very beginning. You don’t notice anything but the love and enjoyment you and your partner share.
But, when things become real, facing you with everyday challenges, you may notice the wrong sides of your lover. Sometimes, you will choose not to let it disturb your romance, and sometimes they just keep ruining your love.
How To Love A Man After The Love At The First Sight
So, butterflies are still there, but many of them flew away. You are now considered a couple with a future. Only then, you may realize that he starts paying more attention to everything but you.
It is ok to have your own hobbies and friends, to even spend some time away doing things besides being in love. But, when you become a person who waits for a man who finds excuses why he again cannot make it, it is time to reconsider your relationship.
How Do You Know You Chose A Man Who Will Always Be There?
The right man will make you a part of his life as he is already a part of yours. He will have time for himself and his friends, but he will always put you first.
He will call you first to share the news and be there when you need him. If he is late, he will make it up to you, not with excuses.
Love Is All About Being Loved
Love is about how you feel in a relationship. If you feel neglected and if you feel that you must ask for love, then, something needs to be changed.
A serious relationship needs commitment, honest talk, and readiness to change. If your man is ready to give all this to you, you may already have a truthful man by your side.
Be Honest With Yourself
Ok, he is the man of your dreams, everything you imagined, and you like that image of your perfect man. But he is just too busy and popular.
Don’t make excuses for yourself. Be honest and think if behind that perfect manly façade is a man that you truly need?
Is he a man who will kiss you in the morning, ready to spend with you those extra minutes before leaving for work? Or a man that knows how to listen to yet another story about your day?
A partner who will not see you as a woman who should replace his loving mom? Is he the one who is ready to share the best and the worst with you?
Choose Him, He Is The One
Yes, the one who was there when the whole world was falling apart. He supported your insane ideas when everybody laughed at them.
Yes, he is the one who loved you from the first moment he saw you. And he will cherish your love, giving his whole world in return.
And you will know that he is the one that you have been waiting for.