We are not born to go through life alone and unloved. So, dating and finding a lifelong partner should be easy. But it's not.
The process is often daunting, and many of us have at one time or another decided we are better off on our own. Until we realize we are not meant to be alone.
And don't think dating is easier for the charming and attractive. I have come to learn that it is all about knowing the right things to do.
So, I am about to tell you 11 things you can do to get any guy you like. This has worked for me, so there's no reason it shouldn't work for you.
1. Make Him Chase You
Guys love it. So, don't deny him the chance to chase you. You can make him pursue you by not being so obvious about your interest in him.
That does not mean being rude or unresponsive when he reaches out. You can interact normally with him, but don't throw yourself at him.
2. Show Interest
Even though you are trying to be subtle about your interest in him, you cannot show complete disinterest in him. He'll move on. He needs a reason to pursue you, a sign that you might be interested somehow.
3. Have Confidence
This has nothing to do with being arrogant, but being secure in who you are. You can be your own woman without making others feel bad for it. That's confidence.
4. Look And Smell Good
It's obvious, but it's worth mentioning. And no, this has nothing to do with you putting on a ton of makeup to look your best.
5. Share Your Dreams And Passions
It's simple, talking about your passions and dreams shows the best things about you. You will look happy and passionate, and you guessed it - more attractive. It does not matter what your dreams and passion are, a man worth keeping will care about them and you.
6. Be Smart, But Not A Know It All
You have seen seriously gorgeous girls get no lasting attention from guys. It's because looks can only take you so far. You also need to show guys you have a good head on your shoulders, otherwise, you will feel like a liability somewhere down the road. Guys value enriching conversations.
7. Give Him Genuine Compliments
People enjoy hearing they look good, or that they have a great character. So, give him compliments on his morals, his tastes in music or food and you will have an easier time winning him over.
8. Don't Be Too Available
If a guy has to try to get time with you, he will place more value on you. He will try ways to make you more interested so he gets enough time with you.
9. Tell Him About Your Flaws And Weaknesses
You don't have to pour your heart out, just mention the little things, such as feeling a little unsettled in large thronging crowds. This humanizes you and makes you seem real. Showing your weaknesses makes the man protective and attached to you.
10. Learn To Express Your Opinion
Guys want to know who you really are. So, feel free to suggest places you can visit. Believe it or not, guys don't have all the answers, especially when the issue affects you directly. So, speaking your mind makes it easier for them to be around you.
11. Don't Lie
Lies are a total turnoff, even when you do them out of consideration for the other person. So, if you really hate something, be upfront about it. Just be sure to be cool about it so it does not get awkward in case he likes something you hate.
Dating is hard, but it's inevitable unless you have completely given up. Chasing guys is even more difficult because it goes against nature. So, if the guys you want don't seem too keen to date you, use the tips above to have them chase you.