Being Single Is Better Than Being With Someone Whose Soul Doesn’t Match Yours
Published in Jul 2019 / Updated in Aug 2021
We all long for a beautiful and fulfilling relationship. We dream of finding that special someone who will be perfect for us.
The problem is that finding this person can be very frustrating, and you could give up on this journey and decide to settle for the wrong person just to avoid being single.
But sooner rather than later, you will realize that you have made a terrible mistake. You will realize that you set yourself on a path toward a failed relationship and lots of regrets by getting into a relationship out of desperation.
And you should not beat yourself up about it – it happens. Many people jump the gun when their patience runs out as they wait for the love of their life and they end up in a relationship with the wrong person.
But you have to realize one thing, the best things in life happen at their own time. As they say, good things come to those who wait.
So, you have to hold on for what you truly deserve. Otherwise, you will get into a wrong relationship at the first chance you get.
This is where most people go wrong. Our desperation overcomes our patience. In confusion, we lose focus and forget everything we set out to achieve. Instead of focusing on finding the truly right person, we focus on finding someone who will change our relationship status from the dreaded single status.
But there is one thing you should know – it is always worth waiting for the person you truly deserve. There are few things worse than committing to someone who is not meant for you.
That is why being single is better than being with someone who is not truly your soulmate.
The last thing you want is to spend your time and energy on the wrong person. It would be far better to love yourself and focus on your things as you wait for the right person rather than end up empty-handed and brokenhearted.
Falling for the wrong person is a mistake we all make. We have charming narcissists, egomaniacs, sexists, psychopaths, critics, eternal pessimists, and even abusive people making their way into our lives. But more accurately, our desperation and lack of focus give them away.
Our hearts get broken in the process, and all because we couldn’t wait a little bit longer.
You see, love is precious and delicate and yet very powerful. You cannot find it in everyone you meet. All around you are people who would make terrible partners, and only one person will be right for you.
Some people are not what they seem. They might seem right when they are not, and it’s usually because you want so badly to fall in love that you end up overlooking their glaring flaws.
If you carry yourself with dignity, someone deserving of you will find you, and you can build the loving relationship you have always wanted together.
Your emotional resources are not for everyone. So, it’s perfectly fine being single. You also need to know yourself and love yourself before you can find the right person. And this often means being single for a while if you are yet to find the love of your life.
So, don’t let the fear of being single get in your way of finding the person who truly deserves a place in your life. Wait for the person whose soul will belong together with yours.