You meet all kinds of people in this life. Some will adore you and respect you, but others will treat you like you are a disposable toy. Based on this, it should be clear who has a place in your life and who doesn’t.
However, life is a little more complicated, because the person you have chosen to make part of your life might not always be the most deserving of that privilege.
That is why you should be strong enough to say goodbye to the man who doesn’t deserve a place in your life. Forgiveness may be part of a normal life, but it should not become the means through which people exploit you for their own selfish interests.
You deserve nothing short of the best in all aspects of your life. Therefore, anything that falls short of this deserves to be out of your life. In other words, have the strength to walk away from a man who proves undeserving of you.
Don’t Be Someone’s Second Option
You should always be a priority because you are amazing enough to deserve a man’s full attention. So, anyone who only calls you to come over just when it suits him is not worth your effort, your love or your attention.
Some guys call when drunk, or late at night, or when the other girl has left. These sort of guys don’t care about you at all. This is simply someone who is using you, and you should never let such a person have a place in your life.
You Need Someone Who Makes an Effort
Relationships need time and effort, and they will never work automatically. However, if you are the only one making the effort so that the relationship works, then you should seriously rethink it.
You should both make an effort to keep the relationship going. The guy should show that he cares and that he is willing to put the effort into making the relationship work. A true relationship is a partnership in which everyone has to pitch in.
Take Care Of Your Needs Too
There is something special about doing things for others, it shows you care. However, you should not forget yourself, as you need the love you show other people as well.
More importantly, you should not give your love and attention to people who don’t deserve it. This is an extreme kind of injustice to yourself. The people you give your love and attention to should pay you in kind and reciprocate that love. Therefore, a guy who only takes and never gives does not deserve a place in your life.
You might not think about this very often, but you are a strong woman. You are also very bold and deserving. Therefore, any man who walks into your life should understand you and have the willingness to put an effort into knowing what you like and making sure your needs are met.
Anyone who is not willing to make this kind of effort is not worth your time. In other words, be a strong woman who can walk away from a man who is not deserving of you and what you have to offer.