Love is a beautiful experience for anyone to share with another. It is often said that it is a once-in-a-lifetime experience. No matter if you've been lucky enough to be in love one time or more, you would want to make sure that it is with the right person. Not just someone who is right for you at that moment but right for a lifetime. If you have ever been in love, I am sure that you would agree that everything seems to go right when the love is real.
Most people want to be in love but fail to do what is necessary to prepare for it. Instead, they swear that they feel butterflies with every person they've exchanged a decent conversation with. A person should be careful not to pass up their opportunity to share the love with "Mr./Mrs. Right for Them" because they were too focused on "Mr./Mrs. Right Now".
Another saying out there is that there is someone for everyone. If that is true, you should be patient and prepare yourself for their arrival. Let's talk about what that looks like to make sure you don't miss out on one of the best happenings of your life.
Feeling Lonely Leads to Giving Up
While in search of it, it can appear that love is everywhere but with you. You cannot leave the house or turn on the television without seeing people who appear to be in love. If you have yet to know what that feels like, you may have given up on the thought of it possibly happening to you. You may even be feeling so low that you are engaging in negative self-talk.
You are telling yourself things like, "I'm not worthy of love", "I'm not enough", or "Something must be wrong with me". It is okay to feel alone but it isn't okay to beat yourself up about it. Prove yourself wrong by saying that you are worthy and that you are enough. Keep in mind that what you say to yourself is what your reality will become.
Make Yourself Seen
If you feel that love will never find you, try seeing what you can change about yourself to ensure that it does. If you have an introverted lifestyle, try leaving the house more often. No, your bi-weekly run to the grocery store does not count. Remind yourself what you are passionate about and go and share it with others.
When you do, widen your personal space a bit. You would want to make sure that you are approachable. Once you have mastered that, make sure that you aren't putting anyone in a competition with your phone or making them pay for your pain.
Look out for The Signs
Once you have begun to make yourself more available, the Universe will begin to give you signs that your soulmate is on their way. You may begin to have dreams like never that seem out of the ordinary. They will be more romantic. They may involve you being approached by your love who is without a face. You may also receive signals through the form of your self-worth.
You will become more cautious about what or who you expose yourself to, especially if they mean you no good. Doing this often will lead to feeling so good about yourself that you will begin to radiate positive energy. Another sign that you will be given is the understanding of your life's purpose and desires. Living will no longer feel like a waste. The Universe knows when you are truly ready so be on the lookout for your confirmation.
Ready or Not, Here They Come
Once you have acknowledged the signs that you are ready, it is time to prepare for your lover's arrival. You have been doing an awesome job by changing the way you see yourself, try doing that for the world around you. Seeing the good that the world has to offer will aid you in being able to enjoy your life more. No matter how much evil the media wants you to see, you will only view the silver lining.
While developing a different view of life, start exploring places you have never seen yourself going to. Who said you aren't good enough to eat at that upscale restaurant? Did you have an awful experience the last time you went? Let go of the past because that was then, and this is now. The past can never be changed, only learned from.
Your Love Has Arrived
The time has come, and your lover has finally made their way to you. I am sure that you are wanting to know that you won't mistake them for a steppingstone. You will know that they are the one because they will have their ways of showing how much they appreciate you. They will bring out the best in you and treat you as a valuable player on their team.
Even if you open about your past mistakes, they won't hold them against you. This will help improve the love you have for yourself by leading you to forgive yourself. No matter how much you grow with this person, you will never have to change who you are. Now doesn't that sound like a person worth waiting for? I think so too.