I’ve seen women go to a lot of lengths to make “better men” out of their lovers. That is a mistake from the very start. As they say, a leopard cannot change its spots.

Thinking about giving him/her the key to your home is both as terrifying as it is exciting. Since it is opening the door to a new level of commitment and intimacy.

Let’s get real for a moment. Let no one convince you that there is anything like the ‘right moment’ for commitment. It’s all about the right person. The day you meet the right man for you, he won’t waste time waiting to be ‘ready’ to commit.

You have not suffered one or two heartbreaks, but several. Pain, betrayal, disappointment, and humiliation have been defining factors in all your romantic exploits.

Ever been in a relationship with a narcissist? If yes, then you know better than anyone how bad things can get. Men with this personality flaw will lie, manipulate, destroy you and do other horrible things to you.

This is to the girl who has suffered emotional abuse. I know that love is not easy for you to define.

I think you should know something. My life has been a little different of late. There has been quite a bit of drama in my life. I also remember what a roller-coaster ride last year was for me. My life was simply chaotic. I wasted so much time on people who were not worth it.

Sure, you share a biological bond that can never be broken. But that does not mean you have to put up with their crap.